For The Good of The Game This is directed at you.
#1
Posted 23 April 2007 - 11:20 AM
Golf - a GAME in which a player using special clubs attempts to sink a ball with as few strokes as possible into each of the 9 or 18 successive holes on a course. - Merriam-Webster. Golf is a game, just like chess or baseball or basketball. Yes, there are many people who play it and make a ton of money playing this game, but odds are that this will never be your career, it will be something you do for personal enjoyment. Most of us know how much fun golf can be, but there is a widely held perception among the public that golf is not for the masses, and many people on this board are perpetuating this misconception.
I am actively involved in an ongoing heated discussion about range etiquette, and the expectations and reactions of some people are ridiculous and highlight the egos and attitudes that are becoming all to common at local facilities. To think that everyone must be silent in order for you to work through your "progression" is absurd. More than a couple members brag about how they pull out their driver (out of order in their progression) and proceed to bomb it increasingly longer distances past the beginners that are attempting to have fun around them in an attempt to embarrass them. These attitudes make people not want to come back, and I will discuss the repercussions of that in a second. There is also an ever-present attitude on here about people who don't have the latest equipment like us. FYI, most people aren't fortunate enough to buy the newest offerings from Callaway or Taylormade or Titleist, and there are more people who play with top flights than there are that play proV1's
Most of us didn't obtain our love for the game by practicing our progression in silence with our fathers, or playing a round with the kid next door who talks about nothing but how amazing his clubs are, or playing the rules to T betting with our friends. We started to play the game because it was a challenge and it was fun. I think that many people have lost that fun, and now every outing is about showing off how good they are and making people feel bad at the same time.
If this game continues to shrink, so will the diverse offerings in the world of golf. Taylormade doesn't make most of its revenue off of Superquad TP's or the TP line in general. I'd venture to say that they make more money off sales from places like Dicks Sporting Goods and the Draw product line than the TP line overall. Until recently, Callaway made almost 100% "game improvement irons". Titleist doesn't just sell proV1's, they sell crappy balls for sale only in Wal Mart. All of this comes from people who aren't as good as you, but just want to have fun, and the same goes for all the great courses this country has to offer. While there are great private courses where it costs a hundred grand to be a member, theres a Bethpage Black.
Enjoy the game, but don't ruin it for others. After all, it is their dollars that make things better for you too.
#3
Posted 23 April 2007 - 12:06 PM
First of all it is incorrect that golf is not growing as a game. Just the opposite is true and has been fueled by what's been dubbed the "tiger" effect. There is a growing interest in golf among younger kids especially now that the most recognizable professional athlete in the world is a golfer.
Golf certainly is a game (as defined by Merriam-Webster), however, it is wholly unique amongst games in that it has rules of play and rules of etiquette. You seem to have a problem with both. The etiquette of golf promotes respect for the game and respect for those playing the game. Now, it is ridiculous to demand library-like silence at the driving range but it is certainly not beyond reason to ask that a generally reserved demeanor be maintained similarly to while playing. The driving range is a place to practice golf -- why not practice the etiquette at the same time too?
Playing the rules to a T, as you mention, is absolutely necessary to golf. If not for the rules, golf would be a silly enterprise. And if you're going to follow the rules, why not follow all of them? Otherwise, how do you pick and choose which rules to follow and which to disregard?
As for other facts you cite -- Taylormade's club sales, Dick's Sports, Callaway having once been a game improvement company, this game continuing to shrink... I disagree with these opinions which you are couching as fact but they are not germane to this issue and are probably best left to discuss in other threads.
Golfwrx is for golf aficionados. Most of the members here have a particularized interest in golfing and golf equipment that is much greater than that of the average golfer. While I won't speak in absolutes because there are certainly exceptions, the members here are not elitists, they are knowledgeable and they discuss their knowledge and/or amass more here on these pages. It is doubtful that many members here like to embarrass neophytes at the driving range, or brag to others that their clubs are better and how dare they play such inferior equipment. Here on golfwrx these discussions are king, but they are rarely intended to disparage anyone who can't afford a Superquad TP with a Matrix Ozik shaft.
Good discussion can easily be chilled in the name of eliminating elitism. But are we elitists? Or do we just engage in good, sometimes heated discussion?
Personally, I feel that promoting a lax attitude for the rules of play and etiquette of golf is much more dangerous to the growth of the sport than rhetoric which is mistaken for elitism here on golfwrx.
#4
Posted 23 April 2007 - 12:29 PM
Also, all the stats I have heard is that there are nearly as many people taking up golf each year as there are leaving.
#5
Posted 23 April 2007 - 01:25 PM
raehtz10, on Apr 23 2007, 12:29 PM, said:
Bull Durham...Classic....
I believe that as in any recreational activity your going to have your once a month players and your 5-7 days a week players, each with their own agenda's and goals. There's room for everyone to achieve what they desire in the game of golf.
Have fun and enjoy the ride!
#6 Gallery_moecat_*
Posted 23 April 2007 - 01:33 PM
(1) A *big* part of Golfwrx is equipment and showing it off. Same can be found at the course and the range. Remember, you can always have your come-uppance with the guy with the bad attitude and fancy bag when he consistently shanks: simply say, "How about a lesson to go with the clubs? I'll chip in a quarter - that's how much I think of you!" For what it's worth, I have seen WRX-ers here proud of their new equipment; for those who come across as cheap salesmen, I personally will call them out on that trait.
(2) Something important about following the rules of golf that is often overlooked is safety. I have a *BIG* problem when a ball lands within even 20 feet of me and I don't hear "fore!"
(3) I also have a big problem with beginners who come to the range to hack at balls, with no intention of taking a lesson. I have seen and been near too many balls ricocheting off of the dividers.
However, the positive things about golf already mentioned in the first post I've seen plenty enough of to keep me coming back to the range and the course. I have shared tee times with many very nice people from all walks of life, and it's an overall experience that makes me very supportive of my local munis. The game of golf fuels a drive in certain types of people, but it's the people themselves who will drive the direction of golf's popularity. For now, I think the good outweighs the bad in that respect.
#7
Posted 23 April 2007 - 02:32 PM
I started golf in the 8th grade...because I got a job caddying at a local country club, and the caddymaster took the new kids out and while he played a round of golf with a member, we learned the function and behavior expected as well as the rules that pertained to our actions.
My concern with what is happening in the game today is not the fact that there are many trying it now because of the increased visability (thank you Tiger), but that those trying it sometimes haven't bothered with learning that playing by the rules as well as appropriate on-course behavior is as important a part of the game as being able to hit a ball effectively. Case in point was a week ago Friday playing with a friend who brought 2 buddies along. Both were probably lucky they could break 120, but one was obviously familiar with the rules and behavior...and one was a total nightmare...specifically hitting off of a tee and the ball headed directly for another tee with people on it, and not even thinking to yell fore....which myself and another person did after realizing he wasn't. What's more...when I and another player said something to him about it...he was defensive...which I suppose would be the natural reaction when you have been called on something that you didn't do that is really common sense.
2 holes later he comes trotting up to the teebox after the 3 of us with a brand new Nike One Platinum, tosses at another player and says "I know how much you like these". Immediately the other player hits the ball off the tee. About 1 minute later a golfer in the foursome behind us comes over as we are walking off the tee and wants to know if anyone has seen his ball...a Nike Platinum, which he said should have been around the green somewhere. I asked the person who had the ball where he found the ball...you guessed it...he picked it up. This time he was chastized by all of us...and this time he really didn't even seem to care.
My point is that we may see people who because many on this board are experienced golfers, we tend to critize and condemn, but perhaps they haven't had anyone attempt to help them? Sure...there are those who simply will never "get it" and that is one thing...but many people are exploring this sport for the first time...and perhaps they haven't had the chance to learn all that is really involved in the game. It is the opportunity to help...now...if that help (on condition it is offered as such, and you are not being some sort of jerk in delivery) is taken as you being eliteist, then that is their problem, and they will find out soon enough that a lot of people won't be playing with them....but I think handled correctly it can be offered as friendly advice and help...you might see some surprising results.
When I was in 8th grade...learning was easy...I was a kid and didn't know a thing....so someone trying to help me was always taken with the attitude of being receptive, after all...at that age you really don't figure high on anyone's totem pole so you usually listen and learn anyway when it is anyone significantly older than you talking. It's a completely different story when someone is older...they have a job...maybe a family...and figure they probably know most of the things they feel like they should...so offering instruction and advice is selling to a much tougher audience unless they are paying for it (where you learn because you are paying!). Still trying to convey a message to someone in a way that if you ask yourself "would I receive it positively" helps the game. Sending the message as a "I know more than you and you are an idiot" isn't listened to by anyone.
#9
Posted 23 April 2007 - 02:58 PM
1) Last month over 80k unique viewers visited the site and made 39,641 posts.
2) The % of active posters is a distillation of those who are interested and motivated enough to do so.
3) The notion that most people here have the latest and greatest is factually off. That's what most people are interested in but, if you look at our Member WITB, its far from true.
4) Because of Ebay and places like our classifieds, newer equipment can be had in fairly good supply and at dramatically different prices. Technology hasn't changed much so the availability of good equipment in near condition is plentiful.
5) I am curious about the elitism you see. Every site I have visited have passionate people about various topics. I don't see people being shunned, name called, or feeling superior. I do see alot of younger members who are learning from more experience Pros that we have here.
6) Golf is an expensive sport to play and this is a very large board with a large pool of users. I hear some comments about bias but when I look at posting history or ask for specific examples, they are a fraction of the greater whole.
#10
Posted 23 April 2007 - 03:47 PM
#11
Posted 23 April 2007 - 08:30 PM
littlepingman, on Apr 23 2007, 04:47 PM, said:
Well said, Pingman.
I've had many similar experiences (had one just last week) as I'm sure most of the decent players on this site have had. I think it's important to have an "attitude of gratitude" for the fact that we can play this game, can afford it and have the facilities to do so. I first started playing on dog tracks in the most blue collar town in America (Flint, Mi) so guys playing in T-shirts and Jeans was a common site and doesn't bother me a bit (at the local dog track). To expect quiet on the range I agree is ridiculous. In my experience (I realize this is a very broad generalization), it's usually the best players who are the most helpful and humble (because they know how cruel, difficult and exasperating this game can be) and it's the one's who think they are better than they are that have a chip on their shoulders and exhibit elitist attitudes (always best to let your game do the talking (and up the stakes) when you get paired with one of those!)
Golf is a game, yes, a game of honor, integrity and rules. Proper etiquette plays a major part in the integrity of the game. But we must educate, before we criticize the ignorant. Show the newbies how to properly repair a ball mark, to leave 'found' balls on the course if there is any chance it belongs to someone still playing the course, to rake bunkers, replace (or fill) divots, not stand in someone's line, where to stand when another player is putting, etc, etc. I play many walk-on rounds at low rent courses (<$25 for 18) and often get paired with inexperienced and poor players. Some of these rounds have been the most pleasant of my life because I got an opportunity to meet new people enthusiastic about playing the game, I got to lead by example and offer advice when I was asked and in a couple of cases got the opportunity to show how well the game can be played (my only double eagle came in one of these rounds). One of my more pleasant rounds was when I was paired with an older lady who shot around a 70 - for 9 holes! She was a delightful playing partner. Thinking back on it, I actually remember these experiences better than most of the rounds I've ever played. More people should try it - that's one of the best ways to grow the game IMHO.
BTW, the popularity of golf has contracted in recent years, not expanded based on # of rounds played and golf ball sales. I'm certain it is in large part due to the ever increasing cost (remember when you could buy a complete set of clubs for half the cost of one of today's drivers?). Making others feel inferior because they are playing old or inexpensive equipment is sure to drive them away from the game. Why don't we all go to our basements right now and donate those old clubs to our local First Tee or volunteer a little time helping to teach those youngsters the etiquette and rules of the game? That shouldn't be too difficult if you love this game enough that you spend time surfing this site.
#12
Posted 23 April 2007 - 11:46 PM
For one, GolfWRX, while very popular, growing, and a lot of members, it is not representative of what is going on in golf, nor is a pointer that golf is somehow to elitist for its own good.
Two, and let me lay this down with much emphasis once and for all, golf is not growing. Anyone who wants to debate this should first check facts and research. If that's a problem, I can point you in a direction of a study that makes it quite clear. The so called Tiger effect is long over. The best measure of the growth of golf is rounds played per course. With very few exceptions, rounds played are down across the board since 2001. The reasons cited by a survey of golf course operators are an uneven economy, the aftereffects of 9-11 which greatly reduced the traveling golfer market, the increasing time pressure on individuals and families, and abnormally poor weather conditions over the past few years in much of the U.S. Even muni courses which just a few years ago were accustomed to over 100,000 rounds per year look packed to the everyday golfer here even though they are only going at a 70,000 rounds per year clip.
As a good citizen, members here should be encouraging and courteous to others regardless of someone else's experience level. It's true for golf as well as many other aspects of life. If you are not doing your part to improve your community around you then you really have little room to complain. However, that is not a requirement here at GolfWRX to post, hence, the paradox we sometimes perceive.
#13
Posted 24 April 2007 - 05:11 AM
arkstorm, on Apr 23 2007, 06:06 PM, said:
First of all it is incorrect that golf is not growing as a game. Just the opposite is true and has been fueled by what's been dubbed the "tiger" effect. There is a growing interest in golf among younger kids especially now that the most recognizable professional athlete in the world is a golfer.
Golf certainly is a game (as defined by Merriam-Webster), however, it is wholly unique amongst games in that it has rules of play and rules of etiquette. You seem to have a problem with both. The etiquette of golf promotes respect for the game and respect for those playing the game. Now, it is ridiculous to demand library-like silence at the driving range but it is certainly not beyond reason to ask that a generally reserved demeanor be maintained similarly to while playing. The driving range is a place to practice golf -- why not practice the etiquette at the same time too?
Playing the rules to a T, as you mention, is absolutely necessary to golf. If not for the rules, golf would be a silly enterprise. And if you're going to follow the rules, why not follow all of them? Otherwise, how do you pick and choose which rules to follow and which to disregard?
As for other facts you cite -- Taylormade's club sales, Dick's Sports, Callaway having once been a game improvement company, this game continuing to shrink... I disagree with these opinions which you are couching as fact but they are not germane to this issue and are probably best left to discuss in other threads.
Golfwrx is for golf aficionados. Most of the members here have a particularized interest in golfing and golf equipment that is much greater than that of the average golfer. While I won't speak in absolutes because there are certainly exceptions, the members here are not elitists, they are knowledgeable and they discuss their knowledge and/or amass more here on these pages. It is doubtful that many members here like to embarrass neophytes at the driving range, or brag to others that their clubs are better and how dare they play such inferior equipment. Here on golfwrx these discussions are king, but they are rarely intended to disparage anyone who can't afford a Superquad TP with a Matrix Ozik shaft.
Good discussion can easily be chilled in the name of eliminating elitism. But are we elitists? Or do we just engage in good, sometimes heated discussion?
Personally, I feel that promoting a lax attitude for the rules of play and etiquette of golf is much more dangerous to the growth of the sport than rhetoric which is mistaken for elitism here on golfwrx.
I think I agree with most of what arkstorm is saying. I'm not so fussed about where manufacurers make their money, they sell goods where they can and as the general golfing population needs easy to hit equipment they'll sell this anywhere they can where the general population go and may decide to make a purchase. Also the debate on the growth of golf is up for whoever can get the most up to date statistics, and as far as i'm concerned there are many pros and many cons to the 'Tiger' effect.
The thing that 'rattles' me most about the topic starter's post is the defense of the so called 'fun' at the driving range. As arkstorm suggests, golf is played with etiquette that has to be upheld amongst players, if you don't expect to have laughing and distractions when you play on the course, why should it be acceptable on the range. In my opinion if you go to play or practice a sport then you should know and respect the etiquette and rules, despite this I still see people messing about on the driving range despite the signs that ask for mobile phones to be switched off and to practice with respect for other users of the facility. The people that bug me the most are the beginners that show up and take it in turns to out drive eachother while their friend laughs at their technique and their consistant tops and slices over the fence. Nothing against beginners, just this breed of them, that is no way to imporve your golf game. I've never hit driver out of 'progression' to intimidate these people but should they be put of the game because they've spent half an hour hitting driver nad not found the sweet spot, and i've then peached one with my first shot with the driver, I wouldn't feel any guilt. The fact is that most of the time anyone who cares enough about the game to practice properly is normally hitting it past these people with an 8 iron. The other thing that is distracting and irritates me at the range, are the people who step out onto the gravel to pick up a ball, or even worse the ones that let their kids do it. The ball is moving the fastest when its just come off the club face, if they were to get hit by a ball that close, or even a club, they would be dead or in intensive care. It is again simply a case of reading the signs at the range and using a bit of common sense. I'm all up for encouraging young children to take up golf, and as someone suggests if someone comes over to see you hit balls becasue your playing well, that makes your day and theirs, this could not be more true than for young children. But the adults that take them to the range need to take responsibility for them. Children naturally will play around and make a bit of noise, but they need to learn from the outset that they must show respect for other participants.
Having said all this, those are the main reasons why I do most of my practice at the bottom end of the practice ground at the club i'm a member at. Never anymore than four people down their and they all know the etiquette of the game.
As for the comments on elitists, i'd consider the memebrs here to be enthusiasts not elititsts, and if you are enthusistic about golf they why should you be put down for taking pride in your clubs and expecting other participants of the sport to respect the ethos that the game that you care so much about is played under.
#14
Posted 24 April 2007 - 06:06 AM
I don't think it's fair to base any of what's said on this site as reflective as what's happening within the golfing world. Although there's an incredibly diverse mix of people on here it's still essentially a niche site and the emphasis is predominantly on the love of equipment. From the discussions i've had here and the people i've spoken to in person I wouldn't call anyone what I would class as elitist.
On a personal note and certainly here in the U.K, I think the game's becoming less of an elitist sport. It's certainly been a problem in the past but thanks to the Tiger effect and to an extent people like Ian Poulter et al, there are more and more kids wanting to get involved and it's becoming more available to them.
Etiquette is an integral part of the game and always will be but don't confuse it with stuffiness. Etiquette is about being polite and having general respect for those around you. It's not there to take any fun out of the game!
#15
Posted 24 April 2007 - 06:28 AM
Think about this? Where would it be without the apparent "Tiger effect" that has now diminished or without the television contracts that have swelled to enormous heights. Today, golf is all around us yet not growing. TV exposure is at an all time high with almost every major tour being televised nearly every week and with the addition and expansion of The Golf Channel. When I was a kid you would see 2 rounds a week (Sat and Sun) of PGA Tour coverage and that was it. Heck the winner's check was $54,000. Even with the explosiveness witnessed since the 70's, we're still not growing, so think about where the sport could be and it's kind of sad.
#16
Posted 24 April 2007 - 06:39 AM
Conversley I have become very serious about the game and my action and I now play and practice at a PGA TPC facility with mostly like minded serious players and for the most part it is all business which I like. This doesnt mean that the "serious facility" is only for the rich either because the difference in price for practicing at either place is nominal.
Two different atmospheres and both are cool just different. If I go to McDonalds am I going to be pissed that I didnt get a great meal, no I realize it is what it is and some times I really like a Big Mac especially with my 5 year old daughter :-). If I want fine dining I know I am not going to get it at Micky D's.
Sometimes people want to make something different than what it is and then complain about it.
RG
#17
Posted 24 April 2007 - 11:35 AM
Fact is, both sports can be VERY intimidating for beginners. It's very easy to look down on people that are not as accomplished as you are in a sport, and it's very easy to get wrapped up in your own game or feelings. Heck, I've been as guilty as anyone of making sure that some new racer with a $5000 pro bike gets shellacked in a crit or dropped in a road race, but I like to think I've grown out of that.
The trick for me is to really leave my ego at home (and I do mean REALLY). Sunday I went for a ride with a dear friend who is 20 years older than me and his friends. I was far and away the fastest of the bunch, but unlike so many other racers, I didn't feel the need to flog them with it. Joe wants to be the first to the top of the hill? Cool, have at it Joe. Doesn't make me any less of a racer. I know lots of guys that would've made it a point to be the first up every hill and in every sprint. Me, I'd rather ride with my buddies and let them have some fun (not to say I didn't win some of those sprints)
#18
Posted 24 April 2007 - 01:13 PM
RagingAardvark, on Apr 24 2007, 09:35 AM, said:
Fact is, both sports can be VERY intimidating for beginners.
So true.
#19
Posted 24 April 2007 - 01:17 PM
My response is going to be different if I'm on a $100 course. Especially if the course has signs about pace of play. I'm paying extra for not only a better course, but a quicker pace of play as well. I can tolerate a short knocker that walks up and hits the ball. I can't tolerate slow play on a premium course by any player, good or bad. Even a total chop can play a round in 4.5 hours.
Elitism is silly. I've heard stories of guys with full tour bags shooting +21 with 46 putts on a round. I've also seen guys with "cheap" sets that can go seriously low. I can play a round of golf with anybody. I'll move up a set of boxes to be friendly rather than insist on playing the tips if I'm playing a casual round. I won't call a guy on every rules infraction or count his strokes unless we're in a tournament or playing for money. I have no need to brag about how good or bad I am. My round and ballstriking will speak for me.
Practice ranges are the same as a course. If I go out of my way to go to a better facility and pay more money to get some serious practice in, I don't want to listen to the cell phone of the jackass three stalls down going off every 5 minutes. I don't want to have to watch my backswing because someone else is not watching where their children are running. But if I'm going to the neighborhood range, I expect that to happen.
Etiquette has given way to guys that are too busy smoking stogies, drinking beer, and sending text messages on the course. I am all for having a good time when I go to a bar. I'm not a fan of watching some drunk bastage puking off the side of a tee box. (Seen it!) If that's snobishness on my part, then guilty as charged.
#20
Posted 24 April 2007 - 08:49 PM
A lot of complaints center around the fair weather golfer. Mr. once or twice a year that happens to get the tee time in front of you and doesn't even know what the term "playing through" means. But also there are a ton of people getting into the game that just don't know that much about it.
I've often though that the only thing this board is missing is a "beginers forum". A forum specifically for guys just making a return to the game or for young guys just getting started.
I'll bet there's a ton of guest who never post because they don't feel like they have enough knowledge of the game or equipment to make a valid comment. And nobody wants to ask what might be considered a stupid question to others.
I'd like to see a beginers forum here. I know there's a ton of knowledgable people on this board who'd be happy to share info with beginers that don't know a Diamana from a Wilson Fat boy driver. It would open up the board for a lot of lurkers who are trying to learn and give first timers a place to jump into the conversation.
Just a thought.
#22
Posted 24 April 2007 - 11:57 PM
I have modified the Swing and Fitness Forum to include Beginners. Let's see how that does since we have many respected instructors and helpful professionals there.
http://www.golfwrx.c...php?showforum=6
#23
Posted 25 April 2007 - 05:12 AM
There was a story I read recently about the growth of golf and golf courses. To summarize, England, Scotland and Ireland seem almost saturated, mainly because of the availability of land. New courses are decreasing the States because of the cost, ie they are only affordable when tied to luxury housing.
Elsewhere (Eastern Europe/Asia), the number of players was expected to increase by 35% a year.
If you build a course, and price it right, they will come.
#24
Posted 25 April 2007 - 12:54 PM
Gxgolfer, on Apr 24 2007, 11:57 PM, said:
I have modified the Swing and Fitness Forum to include Beginners. Let's see how that does since we have many respected instructors and helpful professionals there.
http://www.golfwrx.c...php?showforum=6
I guess I was just thinking more along the lines of coming to the board for the first time and wanting to get basic information about anything and everything. I know for a long time I lurked on the board just because I had little to no knowledge about equipment or shafts or other things. I had to read a lot and get a lot of magazine subscriptions before I felt like I knew enough to ask a valid question.
Maybe I'm the only one.
#25
Posted 25 April 2007 - 07:33 PM
#28
Posted 25 April 2007 - 09:18 PM
scs1070, on Apr 25 2007, 08:48 PM, said:
There would be no need for marketing or multiple brands of clubs....and there would be like 10 total posts here.
Boo!
The only thing interesting is the fact that you apparently assume we'd want to close all the other sections.
It's also interesting that you assume that it would all be mindless chatter. I guess if you're a beginer you just get a club that's the right color and you're good.
#29
Posted 25 April 2007 - 11:03 PM
belote, on Apr 23 2007, 08:20 AM, said:
Most of us didn't obtain our love for the game by practicing our progression in silence with our fathers, or playing a round with the kid next door who talks about nothing but how amazing his clubs are, or playing the rules to T betting with our friends.
We started to play the game because it was a challenge and it was fun. I think that many people have lost that fun, and now every outing is about showing off how good they are and making people feel bad at the same time.
i agree with some things in your post, but some, i mean come on.
First, you say that alot of the opinions are elitists, im pretty sure they come off as elitists because these people are in love with golf, and i think they should have an opinion, seeing as they play multiple times a week and a lot of them like me live, breath and sleep golf. and in no way is it demeaning, its something called freedom of speech
I cant believe you would complain about people playing by the rules, most people who care about golf dislike people cheating, not being honest. Would you want to watch a sport like football if someone gets facemasked and gets hurt, but the ref does not call it, because its just a game so why play by the rules exactly?
You say that people are losing that golf is fun and a challenge, and how they are trying to show off compared to the high handicappers. Its a thing called pride, knowing you got up early, went and practiced, and are able to be in the top percentile of golfers, not that youre better than a beginner, because they might get addicted to golf as well, and end up beating you. None of them are forced to golf, so im pretty sure it must be fun for them.
I agree with some of your points, but others i just did not get
#30
Posted 26 April 2007 - 03:26 PM
#31 Gallery_moecat_*
Posted 26 April 2007 - 03:32 PM
#32
Posted 26 April 2007 - 04:28 PM
Say what you want and if the game stops growing,because we don't have idiots like that on the course, then I am all for the game slowing down. Again, you obviously didn't read, because it was extremely loud and obnoxious, and I guess if you weren't there you wouldn't understand. But continue on with your holier then though attitude, but I am guessing if you act like that on the range and the course you will do more to slow the growth of the game down then people like me who put a few idiots back in their place that there is some semblence of decorum.
I am not elitist, and the normal folks I play with I try to help along, and they look to me for teaching which I gladly do. What I won't stand for is 2 year old attitudes from middle aged men with ADHD anywhere especially someplace where I pay to "play".
#33
Posted 26 April 2007 - 04:56 PM
This would be a very boring board if there was only positive comments and a**-slapping everywhere. As much as you may love a club that works for you, I also like to know what doesn't work for your swing as well. I've avoided a lot of high spinning clubheads that would have no place in my bag due to the critical reviews on this board, both positive AND negative.
If you don't want to come out of your shell and post on this board, I'm not sure that you are ever going to find a golf forum that you will have the courage to post on. This is probably the most open site on the net for golfers. If you want to see elitism, check out some of the hard core collector sites.
As for the good of the game, prices are going through the roof. Not only do you have companies pushing $1000 shafts and $1600 clubheads, but greens fees are increasing year over year. Even if Dad wants to introduce junior to the game, it's at a much higher cost. Unfortunately, this does not look it will change in the near future. That's pushing away a lot of potential golfers.
Add to that the crybabies that are limiting technology that makes the game easier and more enjoyable for the recreational golfer and you have a double whammy. You newer golfers will never see a distance increase from technology since driver lengths and COR have been capped. Now, they won't be able to hold greens because the USGA wants to eliminate agressive grooves. And if that weren't enough, you still have luddites out there trying to roll back the ball. How much harder do we need to make it for the recreational golfer?
The USGA needs to quit making this game more difficult and focus on making the game more accessable to the public.
#34
Posted 26 April 2007 - 07:54 PM
belote, on Apr 23 2007, 11:20 AM, said:
. Most of us know how much fun golf can be, but there is a widely held perception among the public that golf is not for the masses, and many people on this board are perpetuating this misconception.
I am actively involved in an ongoing heated discussion about range etiquette, and the expectations and reactions of some people are ridiculous and highlight the egos and attitudes that are becoming all to common at local facilities. To think that everyone must be silent in order for you to work through your "progression" is absurd. More than a couple members brag about how they pull out their driver (out of order in their progression) and proceed to bomb it increasingly longer distances past the beginners that are attempting to have fun around them in an attempt to embarrass them. These attitudes make people not want to come back, ......................... There is also an ever-present attitude on here about people who don't have the latest equipment like us. FYI, most people aren't fortunate enough to buy the newest offerings from Callaway or Taylormade or Titleist, and there are more people who play with top flights than there are that play proV1's
Most of us didn't obtain our love for the game by practicing our progression in silence with our fathers, or playing a round with the kid next door who talks about nothing but how amazing his clubs are, or playing the rules to T betting with our friends. We started to play the game because it was a challenge and it was fun. I think that many people have lost that fun, and now every outing is about showing off how good they are and making people feel bad at the same time.
You have cast a very wide net with the header "for The Good Of The Game, This is direct at you". Some of the your comments I take issue with
There are many opinions expressed on this board that are elitist and demeaning that are going to ruin golf.
Elitism & inflated egos exist in all walks of life: Next time you are at a large sporting event look at the autos parked there. Motorhomes with the flashy paint. Hummers & premium sports cars, highly decorated motorcycles, along with economy cars. It is what it is.
All sports have proud toys/fads: with fishing it is the latest fishing shirt/rod & reels, boaters the latest/fastest boats. Tennis the latest shirts/rackets. Motorcyclists with the latest bikes, Golfers with the latest clubs. All have some fans that seek the latest & others go with what they have. Does the fact that one has the latest/greatest toy, is proud of it, & will gladly discuss it them make them a bad person? Do these actions cause a decline in their interest areas? I THINK NOT!
Some will use what skills (if any) & equipment to pursue their sports & some will seek a higher level of expertize. The fisherman may seek better gear, attend meetings to improve their knowledge. The motorcyclist may purchase a high performance bike & attend a higher level riding school. The golfer may purchase high performance clubs, take lessions, & practice a lot. Does the fact that one seeks a higher level of efficiency make them a bad person? I THINK NOT!
Your comments about the range as posted by another member implys he should have accepted rude & crude behavior because others were having fun. Has rude & crude behavior become so ingrained that we have to accept it for the good of the game? I THINK NOT!. The menber posts his thoughts/opinions & you have issue with it? Should we all purchase from Wal-Mart For The Good Of The Game? Is the posters here causing a downturn in the golf industry? I THINK NOT! Are the Though Police at work here? I HOPE NOT.
Your comment "This is direct at you" As I indicated you have cast a broad net. I play daily fee courses, make my own clubs using quality products and could not care less what others use or where they play. Nor do I care how far they hit. I, like many members here, visit this website & others for golf & other information, knowledge, & opinions (some good & bad). [b]I would highly recomend care when casting a such a very broad net.
Golf gives one time to stop & smell the roses. It is now time for me to smell the roses & take a walk in the park.
You have a nice day.
#36
Posted 28 April 2007 - 07:17 PM
Golf isn't something you can just decide you want to do once a month and be successful. I always say playing like that is the equvilant of playing basketball for the first time ever and thinking you'll get better playing just once a month. And itis pretty expensive to buy equipment if you're only using it 12 times a year. But if you enjoy it and play a lot golf it really isn't that expensive. I know guys that spend as much on beer every weekend as I do golf.
I think it could grow. I personally see a lot more young guys playing these days than I did back when I wasone of those young guys.
#37
Posted 28 April 2007 - 09:21 PM
As far as being elitest, I have played junior tournaments with kids that have private coaches for the swing, short game and a sports psychologist, and with kids that have a $200 complete Accuity set from Dicks. We all play the same course and are generally indifferent to things such as equipment. I'm not the kind of person to look down on someone for having crappy or older stuff. The golf ball doesn't know if a MP-32 or a Big Bertha iron is hitting it. The course will always whoop you if you make a mistake with ANY type of equipment.
On etiquite and rules enforcement, I smoke and I'm always making sure that I am up wind from my playing partners so they don't have to inhale my smoke. Using that as an example, I like first hand smoke, so when some schmuck lights up a fat stogie down wind from me in the middle of my backswing, I get pissed. I also get annoyed when people don't have the decentcy to yell "fore".
Last saturday I was standing near my bag reaching to get a water, when pain erupted from my head. I was seeing stars when I realized that I had been hit. My friends father hit the shot of his life with a gap wedge and flew the green. He didn't know it was going that far and didn't yell fore. It hurt, a lot and I feel lucky that it was a G-wedge and not a 3-wood.
Thats all I have for now.
#38
Posted 29 April 2007 - 01:10 AM
I am all for giving one the benefit of a doubt, especially one who is a half-way decent golfer that marks a 30 foot putt one inch away from where the actual point of rest was, only because he wanted to make the round go in a decent amount of time, and sinks the TV tap-in. I don't feel that if a person, in a foursome (not in a tournament) marks a putt one inches or two from where he 'actually stopped' was in order to not impede the play of others, was a cheater because he threw down his ball marker to speed up a lagging foursome.
I am a rule of golf guy, always, in a tournament, or formal competition. That being said, if everyone knows in my regular Saturday betting group, that in order not to kill the 4 hour round that the group behind me is playing, knows that if I drop 3 yards away from a hazard (not to improve my position) will not improve my shot-making, it's really no big deal. Whether I am a foot away from the red stake, or a yard away, I am going to hit a 3 iron to 10 feet, it does not matter.
I want everyone to understand what I am getting at, which is not that cheating is the way to go, nor is ignorance of the rules, but tolerance of others. If you are putting on a green where someone steps in your line, by all means, let them know in a friendly manner that what they did is bad etiquette, but if your green is plagued with crows feet, don't blame the newbie for 'interfering with your line of play', etc.
If I offended people by starting this forum, sorry, but the truth is that some people need to realize that this game is a game, and it is meant to be fun. Fun is not winning a hundred bucks off a guy that was casual about the rules but beat you regardless, fun is about you doing the best you can and taking pride in your own game.
#39
Posted 29 April 2007 - 06:23 AM
P.S. I don't really see how throwing you marker down behind the ball instead of placing it directly behind the ball is going to help speed up a "lagging" foursome.
Thanks.
#40
Posted 29 April 2007 - 06:37 AM
Lets face it - golf may always have a bit of elitism associated with it, but here I don't see it too much. There is the enthusiast and the club 'ho (like me and others) - which is popular and by and large harmless.
I understand what it is like to feel the angst that you are describing/implying at a practice range. When I started, I always tried to find a quiet spot so that I could try to focus on what I needed to do, and wouldn't be "intimidated" at the same time. While that is my problem, it no doubt creeps into other beginners minds as well. I've gotten over it for the most part. When it comes to distractions, I don't have a problem with friends who have adjacent stalls helping each other, tlaking, etc., but I do object to the yahoos that have absolutely no interest in the game and act like complete jerks yelling, jumping, and whatever.
I play with a rotating group of friends, and we always have fun when we play. If I didn't have fun, I'd quit in heartbeat. When I've gone out alone and gotten paired up, I always have let my new partners know what level of play I'm at, and I've never had a bad time.
Golf can be a rewarding pastime. I hope you can still have fun.





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