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I really was not going to make him drive back to the teebox to retee, looking for a ball for 5 minutes already slowed us up. As for letting him play his first ball was more out of being friends with him for so long and being nice.
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Jspangler, I hope you don't take offense at this, but I never can understand why two friends playing a game would consider it "nice" to let one have a hole they don't deserve. I certainly wouldn't want that "gift" from one of my friends.
If you like the guy, and want to be "nice" to your friend in this manner, why not just concede the whole match to him. Isn't that nicer still?
To me, friends should be able to compete in a friendly way via the rules. And if they can't do that, IMO they should play along side each other and not against each other. In any case, I sincerely hope you're having fun while trying to balance all that.
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I don't take offense, the being nice was not really going to effect the outcome,
we weren't playing a match play game we played best ball and took the total score, at that point in the match in believe we were up 12 strokes and the chances of him improving on the 5 from that lie was slim.
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Please don't offense at this post, but you may wish to look at the definitions of 'forms of match play" and 'forms of stroke play' definitions in the Rule book and sort out your terminology. It would really help in answering your question. I'm still not certain if you were playing match play or stroke play, but it sounds like stroke play. Further, I'd suggest switching to match play - most of the Rules issues will disappear (loss of hole is easy to apply, and you can concede holes), you'll play faster and probably both of you will enjoy it more.
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Still no offense taken, I never stated we were playing match, I said best ball and instead of playing for holes we just used the best score and kept tally. We played 5 rounds and played different types each round, so match play was played just not that round
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Certainly your terminology indicates match play:
- Best ball is a form of match play
- Opponent only exists in match play
- You use the term "match" frequently.
No offence meant.

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Here is the Definition of best ball-
[size=3]Best ball can be played using 2-, 3- or 4-person teams. Each player on the team plays his or her own golf ball throughout the round, and on each hole the low score - or "best ball" - of the group serves as the team score. Player A gets a 5, B gets a 4, C gets a 6, D gets a 6, then the team score for that hole is 4, because the low score of the group was B's 4.[/size][size=3]
Best ball is usually played as stroke play with the total score added up at the end of the round. It can be played as match play, but best-ball match play with more than 2-person teams results in a lot of[url="http://golf.about.com/od/golfterms/g/bldef_halved.htm"]halved[/url] holes.[/size]
[size=3]Opponents exist in all matches when playing to win something. Every week the PGA plays and event and 1 person has roughly 150 opponents[/size]
[size=3]And finally I never once stated match in my opening post.[/size]