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Calling all Parents of Junior Girls


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#121 HenB0gan

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Posted 08 October 2012 - 01:05 AM

View PostJBirdUt, on 07 October 2012 - 09:43 PM, said:

Daughter just shot 1 under in her U.S kids local, from 1900 yards.  She birdied four of the first six holes.  She had one bogie and one double.  The rest of the holes were pars.  This betters her best round by five stokes.  It was great watching her play at a level I wish I could play at.  It was great to see all her practicing pay off.
She will play in the Desert Shootout, in Phoenix, this next February.

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Posted 08 October 2012 - 07:18 AM

View PostJBirdUt, on 07 October 2012 - 09:43 PM, said:

Daughter just shot 1 under in her U.S kids local, from 1900 yards.  She birdied four of the first six holes.  She had one bogie and one double.  The rest of the holes were pars.  This betters her best round by five stokes.  It was great watching her play at a level I wish I could play at.  It was great to see all her practicing pay off.
She will play in the Desert Shootout, in Phoenix, this next February.

Man that's great.  How old is she?  My kid started at 10, but I wish I started her just a bit younger.  

It's quite a balancing act parenting a junior golfer.  You want them to keep up with it and not miss critical development of their game during these formative years, but you don't want to drive them away from it or make it seem like a job either.  My 13 year old loves the game, but I can see that she has lost a little of her motivation and drive to practice because it is more important (to her) to "hang out" with her friends, rather than go to the golf course with dad.  

Speaking with parents of other junior girls it seems like there is a hump to get over between ages 12-16.  A lot of hormones and emotions make it quite the roller coaster ride.  Rare is the kid with a singular focus to improve who is willing to make the sacrifices it takes (like missing a weekend party, etc) to rise to a high competitive level.

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Posted 08 October 2012 - 10:11 AM

My daughter is 11,  she started going to the range with me when she was 5.  Grandpa is a retired golf superintendent, so between the two of us she has been exposed all her life.  She didn't start playing in the U.S. Kids until early last year.

One of the organizations she has been involved with (LPGA girls golf) is striving to have girls continue on into their teens.  They acknowledge a large number of young ladies stop playing around thirteen.  Hopefully, with the success she's had she'll continue on.  Of course, Grandpa likes to play her a quarter a hole and so far they are essentially even.

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