QUOTE(Charlie_Foxtrot @ Sep 8 2006, 03:48 PM) [snapback]281826[/snapback]
Personally, I had a post deleted last week (and so did another user who quoted my post and added laughing emoticons) when I made a comment about Phil Mickelson's man-boobs. The problem was, it wasn't just a meaningless attack on Lefty - I was using the comment to make a point in a thread about regulating what women wear on the LPGA tour. The post was deleted without comment or even a PM to me explaining why. It just seemed less like "moderating" and more like dictating.
While it's true that I don't want to see vicious personal attacks (flaming), I'm always down for some good-natured ribbing, sharing of rumors, blatant speculation, etc. Frankly, I think it leads to a stronger feeling of community. This site, or any other, is going to be boring if we limit everyone to one opinion or only to topics that everyone already agrees on. Honestly, poor spelling/typing/grammar offends me more than viewpoints that I consider idiotic. (At least I can read and understand those.)
I'm sorry to hear you feel that way. However, as someone who has had tours through all the various golf boards (BSG, GO, GR, etc). I've got to say this is by far the best forum around in terms of hands off moderating.
The guys here do a great job and let things slide. As more and more members join and start participating, differences of opinion are bound to exist.
It's the memberships responsibility and not the moderartors to make sure those differences remain civil and don't go down the road of name calling. Not to say that anything you've posted is anyway in line with that, but you've got to remember that just like in real life, good natured ribbing to one person could be percieved as malicious slander to another.
Basically what I'm trying to say is that if you think it's bad here, you ain't seen nothing yet. The guys here do a great job and IMHO should be commended for their hard work keeping the board friendly and fun.