QUOTE (benkodi @ Jun 10 2009, 09:53 PM)

Based on personal experience, golf trips and trips with the ladies, should never be combined.
You won't play nearly as much golf as you'd like, and they won't spend nearly as much time with you as they'd like. Essentially, it's the worst of both worlds.
Don't get me wrong, I love traveling with my fiancee, but the clubs aren't part of our travels.
Best advice would be to send the "girls" on their own weekend and plan a golf weekend with the fellas at the same time. Win Win.
Completely disagree as long as the ladies enjoy their own company and do things on their own. While I haven't traveled with another couple I often go to resorts with my wife. She goes to the spa while I play golf. There are plenty of times where I have played 36 while she went to the spa, sat by the pool until I finished up and then we'd spend the evening together.
That said I highly recommend Kohler. Great golf for the guys and a top notch spa for the ladies. (edit: might be too pricy for what you want).
Another nice option would be Kingsmill in Williamsburg, VA.
If you live in the NE part of the country, Woodloch Springs in the Poconos or Turning Stone in Syracuse, NY wouldn't be bad options.