QUOTE (CarloGolfer @ May 18 2009, 12:43 PM)

Why would this dude go out of his way to tell me to do something wrong if he didn't know?
You'll find (unfortunately) that if you listen to enough people about the Rules, very few actually know them well. Some folks would rather guess rather than admit that they don't know for sure.
Just remember that YOU and ONLY you are responsible for your actions, and put a rules booklet in your bag.
AND JUST SO YOU DON'T FEEL SO BADLY......I'll tell you a little story that happened a few years ago.....
I was playing in a Sunbelt Senior Tour event in Myrtle Beach. My partner for the day was a newcomer (no problem with newcomers, btw) and I could tell right away that this fellow was...how would you put it..."Out of his element". He was as nervous as anyone I've ever seen on a golf course. I tried to chat with him a little as we were waiting for our tee time, and told him to chill out. After all, it's JUST a golf tournament. Anyway, this player was a REALLY nice guy, and it was his very first tournament. Not on our Tour, but first tournament EVER. And he was 50 years old! OK...to make a long story short, we played the first hole and when we got to the green we marked our balls. I putted first and missed my birdie putt. As I was standing back up after marking the ball, I saw him rubbing the grass around his ball with his hand to see which way the grain was growing! UNBELIEVABLE !! I couldn't believe that I had actually seen something this flagrant happening right before my eyes. I waited until after we finished the hole, and then I asked the guy if he had rubbed the green to test the grain direction? He said....
YEP! SURE DID! (now you have to understand...I thought someone was pulling some kind of trick on me, because this couldn't be actually happening!) When I told him that he couldn't DO that, and that it was a 2 stroke penalty, he.......are you ready for this?......said:
"SURE I CAN! I saw a program on the Golf Channel just last week that showed how you could find out which way the grain was growing by rubbing the grass!" Of course......they didn't tell the viewers NOT to do it when you're playing anything other than a casual round of golf.
It took me 15 minutes to show him the rules in the book, and to convince him that they (The Golf Channel) should have been much more clear about WHEN you should and shouldn't do those things
Just remember.....nobody knows all of the rules inside and out. Not even the PGA Tour rules officials. They ALL carry a rules booklet in their pocket when working a tournament.