QUOTE(Under99 @ Jun 2 2008, 12:00 AM)

No way to justify the expense except to remember that we were put on this earth to do more than work!
Precisely!
I joined "Great Southwest" in GrandPrairie (Dallas suburb) TX a few years ago. Here are my pros and cons about this club, and being a member of a private club (in general):
PRO:* It's very secluded, quiet, and a wonderful course that's very free of housing, and development. It's like a little oasis in the city, to get away from the busy world.
* Even though the course is fairly short, there are many interesting holes, and many of the holes require very creative shotmaking, forcing you to work the ball left/right for the best results.
* Course availability is much better than public courses, which is a big relief to me, as I play/practice a lot. It's wonderful to get at least 9-14 holes in the evening after work, often in complete solitude. this was the #1 reason I went private, to avoid the crowds at public courses.
* It's Inexpensive ($0 initiation), roughly ~$325/month (not including food&cart fees)
* Course Conditioning is wonderful, the greens (Champions Bermuda) are in fantastic shape, and are very fast and undulating. The fairways/rough always seem to be in good shape, with very few bad areas.
* The Course amenities (water, restrooms, towels, sand filler, etc.) are always well stocked and easily available.
* Course workers are very nice, polite young men that are always willing to help with a smile.
* I do NOT get tired of playing the same course. You can play all the various teeboxes, weather conditions change, flagstick locations change, and there are many other variables that do not make it boring.
* There is a small Bobcat that lives on the course. It's great fun to watch him, especially to see him catch and run off with a squirrel for his dinner.
* This club enacted a "Partners" program that enables me to play at various other courses in my area and nationwide for cart fee only. This allows me to get out occasionally with friends or simply to play a different course on occasion.
CON:* Weekends are still busy. The course is very full on Sat/Sun mornings, and it can be busy in the afternoons on weekends. Their staggered tee times on the weekend (sending players off #1 and #10 simultaneously) can yield to a very full course on the weekends. Thankfully this does not affect me too much as I tend to play very late in the day anyhow.
* Very high "Bubba" factor, with Texas "good ol' boys" drinking and gambling it up all over the course.
* Very high "Young Aggressive Male" factor, the guys who are 25-35 years old, with a very self confident (egotistical?) attitude. This club gives discounts for anyone under 30, so they attract a lot of these guys.
* Driving range closes 1 hour before sundown. I really dislike this feature, as I practice a lot.
* Driving range is only ~250 yards long, they discourage hitting drivers (they lose balls to the creek behind the range), so I find myself hitting 3/4 or 1/2 swing drives.
* Grass in the driving range (both full swing and short game areas) is subpar, with quite a bit of a sand base. On the plus side - this forces you to become a better ballstriker.
* Short game area is only minimally acceptable. Since not too many players seem to practice their short game, this works out well for me, as it always seems empty.
* The Greens are diabolical - very fast, and incredibly difficult slopes, and plenty of grain near the hole. Putting can be very, very difficult here, it makes other courses appear like flat carpet.
* ProShop employees seem bossy at times. I've been shooed off the range since they like to close it early. They also seem very annoyed whenever I struggle to get a tee time (as a single) on the weekends.
* Very cliquish membership.
Impossible to break into their playing groups. Most players are polite, but their groups are very closed to outsiders.
* The Clubhouse is older, but well kept. While I wish we had a modern, upscale clubhouse, this one has all the features I need including food&drink, showers, proshop, lockers, shoeshine service, several televisions, couches, and a very, very casual and relaxed atmosphere.
* I still do not partake in the tournaments and outings. Frankly - there is just too much roughhousing, yelling & screaming, and drinking for my personality. Even the men's championship tournament is much too festive for me. When I see people falling down over the teebox markers, and throwing up behind bushes, I know this is a group that I don’t' want any involvement.
* They will send 5-somes, and occasionally groups of 6 or 7 on the course. However - the groups will always allow you to play through, and they won't send large (6-7) groups of golfers unless the course is very empty.
Summary - I love being a club member, it's raised my game significantly, as my handicap has dropped 2.5 points just by joining, and playing/practicing more. It's secluded, and gives me a lot of relaxed feelings while walking the course in solitude and quiet. I have some gripes about this club, but I don't anticipate going back to public golf anytime soon.