Probably not the best place for this post, but maybe a good place for me to unpack some mental baggage.
I don't know if there are any other "Monday Monty's" on this site or not and, factually, it really doesn't matter. What matters is that everyone who has ever played this game has most certainly suffered under the massive weight of .... WHAT IF !
On my annual pilgrimage to download the list of contacts and dates for tournament pre-qual's and qualifiers for the 2008 season [that to my disappointment haven't been posted yet], I felt the familiar tapping of an old friend at the door of my all too fragile golf-psyche. For our purposes, we'll call this familiar old friend "MR. WHAT IF". I say familiar, in that his visitations have become as much an annual occurence as family birthdays, tax deadlines and Christmas.... Not wanting to seem inhospitable, I of course (and foolishly) opened the door inviting him in. This year, Mr. WHAT IF came with a sack of recriminations that would have made 3 golfers wince.
First out of his bag, it was posed, .....Have you ever shown up at a new course three days early to play a practice round; hired a local course-marshal to caddie for you; shot 4 under the first time you saw the track; thought to yourself that it was going to take 5 under or better to get a spot; shot only 1 under on the front, when it counted; pressed too hard on the back-nine finishing 1 over; only to get into the clubhouse to find even-par got the spot... ? MR. WHAT IF, cruelly, reminded me that "I had!" In my own defense, I quietly retorted ....there are no scoreboards at Monday qualifiers. How was I to know ?
MR. WHAT IF simply smiled and, again, reached into his bag ....Have you ever Birdied the same par 5 through 2 practice round with a strategy of making it a 3-shot hole, only to try and reach it in two on the day of reckoning; from a downhill lie; over a pond; to a tucked back left pin; with a 2-iron; watched it splash; and left youself finishing one off the number... ? No reminder needed, I had!
Though only two of the too many such incidents, I at least feel some sense of catharsis and can now answer the question originally posed .... Am I sad to see the 07" over and jones'n for 08"? Yes to both..... as it is my sincerest belief that, if you're going to play this game, you had better have two things, optimism and a short memory.