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May 25 2009, 07:07 PM
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So, let me paint this picture for you. Today, we had an 0832 tee time at one of my favorite golf courses. We get there at 0740 and hit the range. Our 4th backed out, so we went off as a 3-some today. There was a lot of rain last night and early this morning, so they sent us on our way starting at #10. We teed off at 0825 and had a great first nine. We made the turn at about 1015 and saw that there was a lot of groups waiting on #1, so went into the clubhouse and got some water and an egg salad sandwich. After buying our snacks, we head to #1 and go up to the starter and inform him that we are making our turn because we were sent out on 10 in the morning.
Well, he just put us in line of walk-ups. There were four groups in front of us and two behind us that we could see. A foursome, a twosome, a threesome, a twosome, us, a twosome and a foursome(in that order). The foursome and twosome looked to be fairly decent golfers. The threesome hitting two groups in front of us was a whole different story. There were three men, playing from the tips, none of them looking like they have ever been to a range, much less played a round of golf. The first guy in said threesome gets up and tops the hell out of his drive and doesn't clear the red box. The 2nd took three full swings before he made contact and the 3rd shanks his really high and right. At this point we knew that we were in trouble. The starter asked the twosome in front of us if they minded joining with us to create a 5-some and they agreed, so we proceeded at the starters request as a group of 5. After a few holes, my patience was completely gone with the group in front of us. They were constantly looking for their balls in the woods and stuff and we were playing considerably faster than them. Finally after being behind them for 3 holes, I drove up to their carts and asked if they minded if we played thru them. They said no since there was 5 of us and said that they would pick up the pace. It was then that I noticed that one guy had a Driver and a 6 iron in his bag. That was it, two freaking clubs in his entire bag. I drove back to our group and said that they didn't want us to play thru, but we would work it out. The next hole is a par 3, followed by a 4. We played the 3 amazingly with 5 pars and proceeded to number 6's tee box. Well, the group in front of us is about 150 yards ahead of us and all three of them are in the woods on the right hand side of the fairway, searching for two balls. We waited for 10 minutes on the box when I decided I had waited long enough. I said screw it and teed off, followed by two of my playing partners. At this point, one of the guys that was searching for his ball drove out to my ball(pro v1) and picked it up. This is where things started going downhill. I drove out and asked him why he picked my ball up. He said it was because we hit it at them(my drive cleared them by 100 yards and was down the left side of the fairway). I told him that we were just playing thru since they were pre-occupied. He said that it didn't matter and I could get my ball out of his pocket if I wanted it. I walked up to his cart, took the key to his cart and told him when he was ready to give me my ball back, he could have his key. He tossed me my ball, then got his key back and went back out and put my ball back down. They went ahead and played the rest of the hole out quickly and went on. Well, then we get to #7's tee box. I guess they sped thru 7 and were already teeing off on 8. Realize that 7 and 8 are right next to each other with 7's green being next to 8's tee box and 8's green being right next to 7's tee box with only a thin layer of trees separating the two fairways. Since I butchered 7, I was last on the box. Just as I finish teeing up and going thru my normal drive routine, I notice that the guy that I talked with previously was driving thru the trees towards our fairway. I think that surely he is going to wait until after I swing. Well I swing and he doesn't wait. Just about the time I make contact, he jumps out of his cart to hit his ball. My drive is heading directly for him down the left side. I yell "FOUR" and the guy throws his hands up at me as if I am just yelling at him. I realize that he is right in my landing zone, so I yell "DUCK GOD DA#$IT" about a second before my ball crashes down on top of his cart, 4 feet from him. Just my luck, a course marshall is there and asks me to leave due to me yelling obscenities. I couldn't believe it. I had a few choice words with the marshall(he was in his 60's and I am in my late 20's, so they weren't confrontational) basically telling him that he had caused this and it wasn't my fault. Then I drove out to pick up my ball. The guy that I almost killed was pissed and asked why I hit it at him. I just laughed and said that if someone is on the box, you probably shouldn't drive into their fairway. I have a golf etiquette book in my bag that was given to me about 2 years ago when I started, so I just tossed it to him and asked that he and his friends read it, then I left. I talked with the club pro(along with the 4 guys I was golfing with) and we ended up all getting refunds for our round and apologized to a few times by various people at the course, but I will never go back there. Found a young kid(15 or so) on the way out and we all gave him our credits. He has a lot of free golf coming his way. Anyway, sorry for the long rant, but I just couldn't believe the experience I had today. This post has been edited by jotay21: May 25 2009, 07:19 PM |
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May 25 2009, 07:10 PM
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![]() Group: Jr. Boomers Posts: 443 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 9-January 09 From: Scotland Member No.: 72,341 |
HOLY CRAP
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May 25 2009, 07:11 PM
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![]() Coutgogan Group: Jr. Boomers Posts: 132 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 24-May 09 From: Little Rock Member No.: 83,780 |
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May 25 2009, 07:13 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 24 Feedback Rating: 8 Joined: 9-February 09 Member No.: 74,949 |
Just goes to show that I am still fuming about todays round, that I didn't get to finish.
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May 25 2009, 07:17 PM
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![]() Monash University Golf Club Group: ClubWRX Charter Members Posts: 2,100 Feedback Rating: 16 Joined: 4-September 07 From: Melbourne AUSTRALIA, Hong Kong Member No.: 38,807 Ebay ID: kitsoasis |
Can you make it into paragraphs??
I really wanted to read it, but not in one massive slab :P |
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May 25 2009, 07:17 PM
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Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 1,157 Feedback Rating: 10 Joined: 17-July 05 Member No.: 2,971 |
cliffnotes?
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May 25 2009, 07:19 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 24 Feedback Rating: 8 Joined: 9-February 09 Member No.: 74,949 |
Edited with some paragraphs.
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May 25 2009, 07:21 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 474 Feedback Rating: 4 Joined: 25-November 07 From: Florida Member No.: 42,737 |
Readers Digest version?
OK was able to read with your paragraphs and editing. Much better. Sorry but if you are teeing off and the guy drives in your fairway he is in the wrong. I am with you. This post has been edited by buggyman: May 25 2009, 07:25 PM |
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May 25 2009, 07:22 PM
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![]() Group: ClubWRX Charter Members Posts: 1,830 Feedback Rating: 1 Joined: 1-April 07 From: Central Indiana Member No.: 27,317 Ebay ID: conner46792 |
A paragraph or two would make for a little better reading. As it is I had hard enough time just reading through your rant.
As a marshall on some occasions, I would tell you your first mistake was taking matters in your own hands. Never a good idea. When the course is that busy given the fact it was a holiday weekend, patience is your best friend. Sounds to me like you may lack in that area a little. We live in a era where everyone carries a cell phone. I quick call to the club house would have been much better than teeing off when they had not cleared the fairway and taking the key was not your best move. You should have hung on to the book and gave it a good read. Edit; Could have done yourself a favor and informed the starter you were turning before you took the time for the egg salad and water. This post has been edited by CallawayOnly: May 25 2009, 07:28 PM |
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May 25 2009, 07:25 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 619 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 8-March 09 Member No.: 76,984 |
that sucks and also I big reason I try not to play certain muni's. For some reason rangers/marshalls here in the northeasy have no f'in clue. WHen I go down south like myrtle beach the rangers are no joke and keep the pace of play.
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May 25 2009, 07:28 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 24 Feedback Rating: 8 Joined: 9-February 09 Member No.: 74,949 |
that sucks and also I big reason I try not to play certain muni's. For some reason rangers/marshalls here in the northeasy have no f'in clue. WHen I go down south like myrtle beach the rangers are no joke and keep the pace of play. That is the worst part about it. It isn't a muni. It is a semi-private course. I have been waiting to get on for almost 4 weeks(since I returned from the desert). The pro told us that the owners had informed them to fill every cart if they could this weekend. They were pretty upset about the situation as well, after hearing what happened out on the course. |
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May 25 2009, 07:34 PM
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![]() 12.21.12 6:11AM EST Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 2,406 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 23-May 07 From: Somewhere in the Multiverse... Member No.: 29,539 Ebay ID: None |
i suck as a golfer compared to the average member of this board, but i am FAST. and, if there is a faster group behind me i will always offer to let them play through, unless the course is backed up. i also get frustrated when a group ahead won't let you play through and there are one or two holes open in front of them.
however, as someone suggested, a call to the club house may have been the best course of action. This post has been edited by Avatar: May 25 2009, 07:35 PM |
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May 25 2009, 07:37 PM
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![]() Monash University Golf Club Group: ClubWRX Charter Members Posts: 2,100 Feedback Rating: 16 Joined: 4-September 07 From: Melbourne AUSTRALIA, Hong Kong Member No.: 38,807 Ebay ID: kitsoasis |
Thanks for the edit.
I thought you should get priority over walk ups in the first place so on your turn you should be in the front of the queue? I guess you got sucked in by the douchebag and the marshall only saw enough to kick you off? Its a pretty unfortunate incident but the apologies and credits probably showed they were sorry. |
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May 25 2009, 07:39 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 253 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 8-May 07 Member No.: 28,756 |
That sucks. I had an incident just yesterday at the course too. A twosome was about 330+ yards ahead, so I hit my drive out about 270. The guy thought it was too close and I was hitting into them and he got all upset about it pretty much overreacting and started to threaten to get me kicked off the course. I just apologized. I'll be sure and wait now till the group is at least up on the green. First incident I've had in two years or so of playing.
I figure if you play golf, it's inevitable that you'll be involved in some sticky situation at some point or another. It always puts a damper on the day. I guess if harry situations happen regularly then it might be time to have a look in the mirror. But one every few years or so is probably common, unfortunately. |
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May 25 2009, 07:42 PM
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![]() ZP Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 127 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 21-February 08 From: Colorado Member No.: 49,549 |
Still dont get why the course sent you guys off #10 but then resumes normal tee times off the front. Yeah that makes sense.
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May 25 2009, 07:46 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 24 Feedback Rating: 8 Joined: 9-February 09 Member No.: 74,949 |
A paragraph or two would make for a little better reading. As it is I had hard enough time just reading through your rant. As a marshall on some occasions, I would tell you your first mistake was taking matters in your own hands. Never a good idea. When the course is that busy given the fact it was a holiday weekend, patience is your best friend. Sounds to me like you may lack in that area a little. We live in a era where everyone carries a cell phone. I quick call to the club house would have been much better than teeing off when they had not cleared the fairway and taking the key was not your best move. You should have hung on to the book and gave it a good read. Edit; Could have done yourself a favor and informed the starter you were turning before you took the time for the egg salad and water. That was the first thing we did. They have a printed sign that says no more than 10 minutes in the clubhouse at the turn. We were in and out in 5, and went right to the front of the line to inform the marshall that we were making our turn. I have always been under the impression that he should have started us in front of the mess that was backing up. As far as patience goes, I have as much as the next guy. I honestly believe that we did the right thing by asking to play thru. They made the decision not to allow us. A good marshall would have seen this coming on #1 tee when it took a 3 some a total of 6 swings to clear the red boxes. |
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May 25 2009, 07:51 PM
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![]() L E F T Y Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 266 Feedback Rating: 1 Joined: 20-December 07 Member No.: 44,251 |
Nice gesture for the kid...
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May 25 2009, 07:57 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 1,103 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 7-August 05 From: Parts Unknown Member No.: 4,727 |
I have a policy. Every group gets 1 free "hit into me" before I get upset if. Since I am a quick player, it doesn't happen often. The following are the most likely "reasonable" reasons people hit into me. 1. I am hitting my 2nd shot and the guy just bombs a drive. Sometimes it is difficult to judge distances and we all blow it once in a while. 2. On a green on a par 5, every so often some guy 220+ will have one roll up towards the green. Who hasn't accidently "gotten there" unexpectedly? I can live with both of the above scenarios. Otherwise, I think it is unacceptable to hit into anyone. Hit into me twice. We have a problem. Nevertheless, I do not recommend taking anything into my own hands. If there is a problem (typically slow play), I call the proshop and have them send a marshall. A few years ago, I had a crazy incident. Despite the fact our group consisted of two dudes who had to go 6-2, 250+, the fact I am 200+, and my playing partner is a fit guy in is 30's, a group of geezers hit into 2 times on the first 4 holes. Thankfully, I called the marshall and he said he would watch them. On the 6th hole (a par five), we were putting out when I noticed one of the geezers standing in the fairway about 160 yards out. My partner said, I bet they hit into us before we reach our carts. I joked, "A dollar says we won't clear the green." SOB - the guy hit with all four of us on the green (the two big guys were not even on the half of the green closest to the carts). Needless to say, I was upset and yelled something. Luckily, the marshall saw it and said he would take care of it. The funny part, we were on the next tee when I heard the guy complaining he got "unlucky" when his ball buried in the bunker. How he didn't notice my size 10 on top of it, I have no idea? This post has been edited by Onebulldogs: May 25 2009, 08:00 PM |
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May 25 2009, 07:58 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 700 Feedback Rating: 11 Joined: 11-October 07 Member No.: 40,738 |
Don't wanna "pile on" u, but I would have to agree with having the ranger talk to them b4 taking action on your own.
I know I'm not a good player either, but I know when I'm slowing down everyone, I'll just pick up my ball and move on. It's too bad ALOT of people are not as considerate... Thus, maybe having the course ranger keeping an eye on the slow-pokes would instill a sense of urgency to them? Don't give up on the course because of this just one bad experience. It happens. Now, if it becomes a repeating theme (poor pace management or whatever else seems to be a problem(s)), then, yeah, u can stop going there. i suck as a golfer compared to the average member of this board, but i am FAST. and, if there is a faster group behind me i will always offer to let them play through, unless the course is backed up. i also get frustrated when a group ahead won't let you play through and there are one or two holes open in front of them.
however, as someone suggested, a call to the club house may have been the best course of action. |
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May 25 2009, 08:03 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 2,417 Feedback Rating: 5 Joined: 28-May 07 From: The Mountains of North Carolina Member No.: 30,047 |
I wouldn't go back either if that's how they run the place.
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May 25 2009, 08:17 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 319 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 3-January 06 From: DFW, Texas Member No.: 9,313 |
Man, I feel for you. I have seen this type of situation so many times it is not funny. I played public golf courses for 15 years after I graduated college. I cannot tell you how many times I ran into rude pro shop employees, non functioning marshals, people with no clue how to play golf and most certainly no clue about golf etiquette. It is such a frustrating experience.
The municipal golf course in the city/town I live has the most stupid policies of any golf course I have ever run across. Get this....I will try to lay this out...... They would not allow you to pay until they call you. They would not call you until about 30 minutes till your tee time. The driving range is a 200 yard walk from the pro shop. You go into the pro shop, check in to let them know that we were there, pay for range balls and then walk the 200 yards to the range. Invariably they would call you to pay while you were in the middle of hitting balls and somebody or everybody would have to make the trek to the pro shop to pay. (Did I leave out the part where they would not give you a cart until you paid). Then you tee off.......the marshals were always rude and did nothing to actually monitor or speed up play. If you complained to them they would tell they were doing all they could and then they would go to the nearest lake to hawk balls. Their was one person in particular who worked behind the counter in the Pro Shop......let's call him Sid......he was particulary rude most of the time and had the "leave if you don't like it" attitude. The funny thing is, everybody I ever ran into who had played there all said the same thing about the entire experience at the golf course. It was a good golf course with very reasonable prices so it was really a good course - except for the staff and the pace of play. I quit playing there during the last 4 years that I played public golf because I would always walk off of the course mad about one thing or the other. I hear your story loud and clear. You have my deepest sympathies. Peace! |
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May 25 2009, 08:18 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 541 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 13-January 09 From: Daytona Beach, Florida Member No.: 72,684 |
Not sure how I feel about this one to be honest. I'm not the best player, but I certainly won't hold someone up unless there is a group in front and I have nowhere to go. If you had hit into me like that, your ball would have been further away than my pocket, that's for sure. Even if you were 100 yards clear. That's insanely inconsiderate. I can understand the frustration, but isn't part of the fun being out with a group of friends on a nice day anyway? I don't understand the huge rush. More than likely there was a group in front of them that was just as slow at some point as it sounds like things were a bit crowded.
With that said, I can't stand when people don't know their place and won't let you play through. I think I would have just cut them off and started the next hole without hitting into them. |
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May 25 2009, 08:18 PM
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![]() Group: Jr. Boomers Posts: 354 Feedback Rating: 8 Joined: 6-September 08 From: Houston, TX Member No.: 65,112 Ebay ID: owaisdurrani |
I totally feel your pain. Unfortunatly it reminds me of my home course over and over agian.
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May 25 2009, 08:21 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 319 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 3-January 06 From: DFW, Texas Member No.: 9,313 |
Don't wanna "pile on" u, but I would have to agree with having the ranger talk to them b4 taking action on your own. I know I'm not a good player either, but I know when I'm slowing down everyone, I'll just pick up my ball and move on. It's too bad ALOT of people are not as considerate... Thus, maybe having the course ranger keeping an eye on the slow-pokes would instill a sense of urgency to them? Don't give up on the course because of this just one bad experience. It happens. Now, if it becomes a repeating theme (poor pace management or whatever else seems to be a problem(s)), then, yeah, u can stop going there. i suck as a golfer compared to the average member of this board, but i am FAST. and, if there is a faster group behind me i will always offer to let them play through, unless the course is backed up. i also get frustrated when a group ahead won't let you play through and there are one or two holes open in front of them. however, as someone suggested, a call to the club house may have been the best course of action. I have the opposite opinion........most marshals at golf courses.....i stress "most".......are not interested in actually taking care of pace of play, slow groups, etc... It seems that you were congenial when you first approached the group. Sadly, this is a common story at public golf courses. |
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May 25 2009, 08:22 PM
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![]() Group: ClubWRX Charter Members Posts: 1,830 Feedback Rating: 1 Joined: 1-April 07 From: Central Indiana Member No.: 27,317 Ebay ID: conner46792 |
That was the first thing we did. They have a printed sign that says no more than 10 minutes in the clubhouse at the turn. We were in and out in 5, and went right to the front of the line to inform the marshall that we were making our turn. I have always been under the impression that he should have started us in front of the mess that was backing up. As far as patience goes, I have as much as the next guy. I honestly believe that we did the right thing by asking to play thru. They made the decision not to allow us. A good marshall would have seen this coming on #1 tee when it took a 3 some a total of 6 swings to clear the red boxes. First, you should have informed the starter when you came back to number one that you would be turning after you stopped in the club house. That should have been first. At that point he should have gotten you out next when you returned from getting refreshments. I agree that he should have held that threesome after they had problems getting off in good time. I can tell you first hand that it can be tough at times to manage things perfectly each and every day. You also have to take into consideration that this was a holiday weekend which often makes tee times tough to hit. I worked yesterday at my home course which had a full time sheet from 5:50 am until 6:20 pm. I'm sure there was some waiting on the course as the holidays often bring family and friends together for a round that normally never play or play very little. We had a few calls from the course and I even went out in the afternoon and held a slow group up to allow a group to pass. One rule we live by is; the group behind should never go up to the slow group ahead and request to play thru. The slow group ahead, should "invite" you to play thru. If this does not happen in a couple of holes and you are truely being held up and groups behind you are backing up, you shoud always call the pro shop first. In our case, we would then come out and watch the group ahead of you and be the one to tell them to let you pass. That is what we are paid to do. Taking matters in your own hands is never a good idea, and almost always makes things much worse. Playing golf at any course is a privilege and the course owners/workers must always be in control, not the players. In my case, I'm not sure how many groups we had at my home course this weekend, but it was a bunch and I don't think anyone was kicked out which rarely, if ever happens. Like I said, holiday weekends are the worse times, and there must be some give and take between groups on the course. |
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May 25 2009, 08:23 PM
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![]() Group: ClubWRX Charter Members Posts: 3,451 Feedback Rating: 2 Joined: 27-April 05 From: Houston, Texas Member No.: 397 |
...I would tell you your first mistake was taking matters in your own hands. Never a good idea. When the course is that busy given the fact it was a holiday weekend, patience is your best friend. Sounds to me like you may lack in that area a little. Sorry, but I have to agree with CO.We live in a era where everyone carries a cell phone. [A] quick call to the club house would have been much better than teeing off when they had not cleared the fairway and taking the key was not your best move. You should have hung on to the book and gave it a good read... You seem like a good guy, but hitting into them wasn't the right thing to do. I just try to laugh off the small stuff and not take life personally. This post has been edited by Asleep: May 25 2009, 08:39 PM |
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May 25 2009, 08:25 PM
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![]() Group: Jr. Boomers Posts: 354 Feedback Rating: 8 Joined: 6-September 08 From: Houston, TX Member No.: 65,112 Ebay ID: owaisdurrani |
Don't wanna "pile on" u, but I would have to agree with having the ranger talk to them b4 taking action on your own. I know I'm not a good player either, but I know when I'm slowing down everyone, I'll just pick up my ball and move on. It's too bad ALOT of people are not as considerate... Thus, maybe having the course ranger keeping an eye on the slow-pokes would instill a sense of urgency to them? Don't give up on the course because of this just one bad experience. It happens. Now, if it becomes a repeating theme (poor pace management or whatever else seems to be a problem(s)), then, yeah, u can stop going there. i suck as a golfer compared to the average member of this board, but i am FAST. and, if there is a faster group behind me i will always offer to let them play through, unless the course is backed up. i also get frustrated when a group ahead won't let you play through and there are one or two holes open in front of them. however, as someone suggested, a call to the club house may have been the best course of action. I have the opposite opinion........most marshals at golf courses.....i stress "most".......are not interested in actually taking care of pace of play, slow groups, etc... It seems that you were congenial when you first approached the group. Sadly, this is a common story at public golf courses. yeah seems like marshalls are more interested in the free refreashments they get than actually doing their job. |
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May 25 2009, 08:30 PM
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![]() The high, stinky cheddar! Group: ClubWRX Charter Members Posts: 296 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 5-May 08 From: Hickam AFB, Hawaii Member No.: 55,153 Ebay ID: jshiver1984 |
That sucks. I had an incident just yesterday at the course too. A twosome was about 330+ yards ahead, so I hit my drive out about 270. The guy thought it was too close and I was hitting into them and he got all upset about it pretty much overreacting and started to threaten to get me kicked off the course. I just apologized. I'll be sure and wait now till the group is at least up on the green. First incident I've had in two years or so of playing. I figure if you play golf, it's inevitable that you'll be involved in some sticky situation at some point or another. It always puts a damper on the day. I guess if harry situations happen regularly then it might be time to have a look in the mirror. But one every few years or so is probably common, unfortunately. Not to bash you or anything, but that sort of thing bothers me almost as much as actually being hit into. I can't begin to count how many times I've heard a thud in my backswing and damn near had a heartattack thinking the thing would hit me. Just my 2 cents. |
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May 25 2009, 08:38 PM
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![]() Group: Jr. Boomers Posts: 1,630 Feedback Rating: 5 Joined: 28-December 06 From: Boulder Member No.: 23,222 Ebay ID: hockeyboy5253 |
that is pure bull s***, i cannot stand people who do not understand simple etiquette... its not that hard to understand!
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May 25 2009, 08:41 PM
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![]() Group: Members Posts: 80 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 14-May 09 From: RM, NC Member No.: 82,934 |
GREED caused that entire situation.
I've worked at a club that used dual tee times and averaged 220 rounds a day in season. Once the morning sheet is full that's it. Load it up and do it all over again after lunch. No walk-ups. Otherwise they had no good reason for using dual tee times in the first place. You cannot take walk-ups and send them off on the front when your back nine starters are making the turn. I would of had a calm chat with the golf pro about my opinion of that situation. |
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May 25 2009, 08:42 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 24 Feedback Rating: 8 Joined: 9-February 09 Member No.: 74,949 |
...I would tell you your first mistake was taking matters in your own hands. Never a good idea. When the course is that busy given the fact it was a holiday weekend, patience is your best friend. Sounds to me like you may lack in that area a little. Sorry, but I have to agree with CO.We live in a era where everyone carries a cell phone. [A] quick call to the club house would have been much better than teeing off when they had not cleared the fairway and taking the key was not your best move. You should have hung on to the book and gave it a good read... You seem like a good guy, but hitting into them wasn't the right thing to do. I just try to laugh it off the small stuff and not take life personally. I guess I don't really consider what we did, "hitting into them". They were 40 yards to the right and only about 150 out. We all went left. I guess we should have waited, in retrospect, but I think that the Marshall's had their chance to make this right and chose not to for profit. |
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May 25 2009, 08:43 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 253 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 8-May 07 Member No.: 28,756 |
That sucks. I had an incident just yesterday at the course too. A twosome was about 330+ yards ahead, so I hit my drive out about 270. The guy thought it was too close and I was hitting into them and he got all upset about it pretty much overreacting and started to threaten to get me kicked off the course. I just apologized. I'll be sure and wait now till the group is at least up on the green. First incident I've had in two years or so of playing. I figure if you play golf, it's inevitable that you'll be involved in some sticky situation at some point or another. It always puts a damper on the day. I guess if harry situations happen regularly then it might be time to have a look in the mirror. But one every few years or so is probably common, unfortunately. Not to bash you or anything, but that sort of thing bothers me almost as much as actually being hit into. I can't begin to count how many times I've heard a thud in my backswing and damn near had a heartattack thinking the thing would hit me. Just my 2 cents. Oh I know. From now on, I'm just gonna wait till there is no question that the group in front is well out of range. I've been getting too relaxed with that kinda thing i guess. Plus they were new golfers, and the last thing I want to do is make new golfers feel more uncomfortable then they already are on the course. |
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May 25 2009, 08:50 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 319 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 3-January 06 From: DFW, Texas Member No.: 9,313 |
GREED caused that entire situation. I've worked at a club that used dual tee times and averaged 220 rounds a day in season. Once the morning sheet is full that's it. Load it up and do it all over again after lunch. No walk-ups. Otherwise they had no good reason for using dual tee times in the first place. You cannot take walk-ups and send them off on the front when your back nine starters are making the turn. I would of had a calm chat with the golf pro about my opinion of that situation. Great point! |
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May 25 2009, 09:19 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 738 Feedback Rating: 1 Joined: 20-October 05 From: DFW Member No.: 6,970 |
On one hand the course did you no favors by sending you out on the backside and expecting you to somehow work your way into the front side. And it would be frustrating to be stuck between slow golfers who had no business playing from the tips.
But I still can't see any reason to ever take it upon yourself and play through by hitting over the other group. Even though you knew you would clear them, it's pretty presumptuous to play through without and invite AND hit into the group. Even though you were technically hitting over them, I imagine most golfers would take issue with a group teeing off before they hit their approach shots. I'm kinda surprised the situation didn't escalate worse than it did with the whole ball/key taking standoff. It seems like a situation where everybody - the course, the other group and you have handled it a little bit better... |
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May 25 2009, 09:22 PM
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![]() Group: Members Posts: 1,961 Feedback Rating: 13 Joined: 22-October 06 From: Lebanon, PA Member No.: 20,859 Ebay ID: ckneasel |
while i can understand your frustration, you should not have teed off while they were in the woods looking for their ball...
you started the animocity, and only continued it by stooping to his level and taking his cart key... frankly you are looking to blame this on someone else, when you clearly have noone to blame but yourself... the fact that they let a 5-some go out at a semi private club, tells you what kind of place it really is... |
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May 25 2009, 09:23 PM
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![]() The high, stinky cheddar! Group: ClubWRX Charter Members Posts: 296 Feedback Rating: 0 Joined: 5-May 08 From: Hickam AFB, Hawaii Member No.: 55,153 Ebay ID: jshiver1984 |
Oh I know. From now on, I'm just gonna wait till there is no question that the group in front is well out of range. I've been getting too relaxed with that kinda thing i guess. Plus they were new golfers, and the last thing I want to do is make new golfers feel more uncomfortable then they already are on the course. I can respect that! Being hit by a ball on the golf course is one of my biggest fears. I don't know why, but whenever I feel as though I'm in danger of being hit, I get shaken up pretty badly. I was the same way in baseball. And the thing is, whenever I did get hit, I never got hurt. I even took a line drive to the chest when I was pitching and I just shook it off. |
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May 25 2009, 09:23 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 24 Feedback Rating: 8 Joined: 9-February 09 Member No.: 74,949 |
On one hand the course did you no favors by sending you out on the backside and expecting you to somehow work your way into the front side. And it would be frustrating to be stuck between slow golfers who had no business playing from the tips. But I still can't see any reason to ever take it upon yourself and play through by hitting over the other group. Even though you knew you would clear them, it's pretty presumptuous to play through without and invite AND hit into the group. Even though you were technically hitting over them, I imagine most golfers would take issue with a group teeing off before they hit their approach shots. I'm kinda surprised the situation didn't escalate worse than it did with the whole ball/key taking standoff. It seems like a situation where everybody - the course, the other group and you have handled it a little bit better... That is really the only part that I regret, but I wasn't sure how I was going to get my ball back. I was not overly concerned about the situation escalating though. I had absolutely no intention of a physical altercation with the guy in the group in front of us, but had something escalated, I think that I could have stopped it very quickly. |
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May 25 2009, 09:29 PM
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Group: Members Posts: 24 Feedback Rating: 8 Joined: 9-February 09 Member No.: 74,949 |
while i can understand your frustration, you should not have teed off while they were in the woods looking for their ball... you started the animocity, and only continued it by stooping to his level and taking his cart key... frankly you are looking to blame this on someone else, when you clearly have noone to blame but yourself... the fact that they let a 5-some go out at a semi private club, tells you what kind of place it really is... So, asking a slower group to allow my group to play thru is starting animocity? I am not tracking that at all. |
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May 25 2009, 09:42 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 839 Feedback Rating: 41 Joined: 31-July 07 From: The Mountain State Member No.: 36,045 |
I don't mind playing with beginners. I don't mind playing with horrible golfers. I don't mind an errant shot flying my way once in a while. I don't mind much. BUT...I hate people who don't know what etiquette is on the golf course. If you're slow, let me play through. AND FOR GOD'S SAKE......IF YOU DIDN'T HIT THE STOOPID BALL, DON'T TOUCH IT!!!! IT AIN'T YOURS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Etiquette is way-y more important than skill. And unfortunately most of those who lack skill also lack the required respect for the game to know display proper etiquette. It's like infringing upon my constitutional right to enjoy my round of golf. Sometimes I wish I could carry one of those riot control guns in my bag, you know the ones that shoot those "non-lethal" rubber bullets. That would be quite effective as a teaching tool for some of the yayhoos I've encountered on the course. |
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May 25 2009, 09:56 PM
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![]() Group: Peanut Gallery Posts: 328 Feedback Rating: 8 Joined: 1-July 08 From: Making the turn Member No.: 59,375 |
Sorry, but you NEVER intentionaly hit into someone. It all started with that. I can't stand it when people get so up tight about pace of play, if you have somewhere to be, go there. Did you ever think maybe these guys don't get to play that much golf and just wanted to enjoy it.
Your reaction tells me this isn't the first time you've been bent qnou pace of play, and have unrealistic expectations ofnhow fast a round should be played in |
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