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Staying on Track When Your Game Goes Off Course

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Equanimity sounds like an innovative name for a rescue club, but it’s not a new golf technology. It’s an old psychology going back to the Buddha, and is made inside of you as your game veers off course.

Equanimity offers a mental and emotional rescue after missing an easy putt, getting an unfair bounce into the water, a whiff, a duck hook or a triple bogey on No. 18 when all you needed was a bogey to shoot under 100, 90, 80 or 70 for the first time.

Equanimity is defined as:

Mental calmness, composure, evenness of temper especially in difficult situations, poise and serenity.

Calmness, composure, poise and serenity are exceptional emotions to experience when every neuron of your brain wants to explode with anger and you feel like throwing a club rather than swinging a club. Or you want to walk off the course or somehow shrink and disappear down the cup on the 13th green rather than having to make one more disastrous shot.

Here are five keys you can turn during a game to unlock equanimity:

  • Remind yourself that perfection is only an ideal. Keep reminding yourself that perfection is an ideal and not real. When you fail to achieve perfection with a shot, remind yourself that you are imperfect and that bad shots are to be expected even if they are not welcomed.
  • Acknowledge that everything is impermanent. Neither great shots nor bad shots are permanent. To find equanimity, embrace impermanence. In the very act of embracing impermanence you may find your enjoyment and performance improves. Impermanence is a great experience when a bad game starts to improve but we are challenged when a good game deteriorates.
  • Toss grass not temper. Here is a grounded way to restore equanimity. Throw a bit of grass rather than a temper tantrum. Pause after a really bad shot and just before you ignite into a temper tantrum, reach down and pick up a tuff of grass and throw it as if testing for wind conditions. As the grass falls or blows away let your anger slowly fall or blow away before you engage with the next shot.
  • Loosen your grip. It would be nice to be able to instantly let go of a bad shot. This may be unrealistic as an initial step. If you struggle to let go then work at loosening your mental grip. Let the anger occur and express it if you must, but if you are walking toward the next shot muttering and frustrated let your next steps loosen your hold of those destructive emotions so that these mental demons do not vex your next shot. Limit your expression of anger or anguish to one or two sentences so that you are not sentenced to 18 holes of misery.
  • Take a breather. When we lose our composure and calm, we often tighten up and start to breathe quite shallowly. Your brain can be starved for oxygen. Slowly exhale and mentally blow away the bad shot then inhale a bit of oxygenated inspiration for the next shot. Repeat as many times as necessary.

Although the concept of equanimity goes back centuries, you don’t have to strip off your khaki pants and golf shirt and attire in saffron robes to find equanimity at golf. Perhaps all you need to do is to keep reminding yourself to cultivate equanimity during the game by writing the word on your golf glove and use each time you see the word as a trigger to keep turning the keys of equanimity for composed golf.

A small and doable dose of equanimity during your game when it goes off course may do wonders to improve your experience of the game even when your physical or scoring game is off course. To steal a phrase from Mick Jagger and Keith Richards in their “Emotional Rescue,” equanimity can be your golf savior, steadfast and true.

Short Summary: Having equanimity in your mental repertoire is more important than having a rescue club in your bag after a bad shot.

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David Zinger taught Educational Psychology at the University of Manitoba for 20 years focusing on counseling psychology and how to teach adults. His master's thesis was on humor in counseling. During this time he has studied and kept a keen interest in the various elements of golf and performance psychology. David lives in Winnipeg, Canada so he contends with six months of snow hibernating his limited time to golf. David is primarily focused on employee engagement and runs a global network of 6000 members focused on the topic. Many of the key principles of engagement also apply to golf: connecting to results, energy, strengths, progress, performance, meaning, and moments. Although David only plays golf occasionally he has a passion for the game that dates back to being a $2.00 a round caddy at 12 years of age for Riverside Golf Club in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. He enjoys playing golf with his wife Susan and they both relish each having a hole-in-one. Website: www.davidzinger.com Email David: [email protected]

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  1. Chris Hale

    Jul 26, 2013 at 7:08 pm

    I submit that a proper club toss (toward the target, low to the ground, as if skipping a stone on a lake) is an excellent stress reliever. The key is to compose yourself, and focus on the next shot. 🙂

  2. David Zinger

    Apr 23, 2013 at 6:37 pm

    Bill: Nice to know my brother the marshall (now a starter I understand) send this out to his golf posse armed with 5 irons and now equanimity.

    Brian: I have welcomed too many bad shots but what else can we do that makes any sense. When I welcome then, uninvited as they are, I may just learn a little something from them.

    Ron: If equanimity was good for the Buddha can’t be too bad for us on or off the course and especially when we try to be on course but find ourselves badly off course.

    Mark: All the best at enlightening the golf buddies. Just make sure you don’t mention my name after a bad shot and they start calling their bad shots “zingers.”

  3. Mark Farrugia

    Apr 23, 2013 at 4:59 pm

    How a gift of prose so eloquently describes my game.
    Practice makes perfect..or in my case a few strokes off my game. Will pass it on to my golfing buddies. It will’certainly enlighten their upcoming season and help put in perspective
    their game as well.

    Good job!

  4. Ron McGurk

    Apr 23, 2013 at 1:18 pm

    Neil passed this along to me, glad he did. Well written! I’m not a golfer but can see the benefits of this mind-set in other sports and of course many aspects of daily life.

  5. Brian Swan

    Apr 23, 2013 at 12:24 pm

    David, enjoyed your article and although I only play golf occasionally I am sure the word “equanimity” will now be a big part of my game and my mental repertoire. I will now adapt your quote in the article to apply to me personally — “when I fail to achieve perfection with a shot I have to remind myself that I am indeed imperfect and that bad shots are to be expected even if they are not welcomed”. Good job!

  6. Bill MacLaren

    Apr 23, 2013 at 11:09 am

    Very good article and certainly will give me something to think about on the course. I will become part of my course management. Your brother sent me this article and I am glad he did.

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The Wedge Guy: The easiest-to-learn golf basic

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My golf learning began with this simple fact – if you don’t have a fundamentally sound hold on the golf club, it is practically impossible for your body to execute a fundamentally sound golf swing. I’m still a big believer that the golf swing is much easier to execute if you begin with the proper hold on the club.

As you might imagine, I come into contact with hundreds of golfers of all skill levels. And it is very rare to see a good player with a bad hold on the golf club. There are some exceptions, for sure, but they are very few and very far between, and they typically have beat so many balls with their poor grip that they’ve found a way to work around it.

The reality of biophysics is that the body moves only in certain ways – and the particulars of the way you hold the golf club can totally prevent a sound swing motion that allows the club to release properly through the impact zone. The wonderful thing is that anyone can learn how to put a fundamentally sound hold on the golf club, and you can practice it anywhere your hands are not otherwise engaged, like watching TV or just sitting and relaxing.

Whether you prefer an overlap, interlock or full-finger (not baseball!) grip on the club, the same fundamentals apply.  Here are the major grip faults I see most often, in the order of the frequency:

Mis-aligned hands

By this I mean that the palms of the two hands are not parallel to each other. Too many golfers have a weak left hand and strong right, or vice versa. The easiest way to learn how to hold the club with your palms aligned properly is to grip a plain wooden ruler or yardstick. It forces the hands to align properly and shows you how that feels. If you grip and re-grip a yardstick several times, then grip a club, you’ll see that the learning curve is almost immediate.

The position of the grip in the upper/left hand

I also observe many golfers who have the butt of the grip too far into the heel pad of the upper hand (the left hand for right-handed players). It’s amazing how much easier it is to release the club through the ball if even 1/4-1/2″ of the butt is beyond the left heel pad. Try this yourself to see what I mean.  Swing the club freely with just your left hand and notice the difference in its release from when you hold it at the end of the grip, versus gripping down even a half inch.

To help you really understand how this works, go to the range and hit shots with your five-iron gripped down a full inch to make the club the same length as your seven-iron. You will probably see an amazing shot shape difference, and likely not see as much distance loss as you would expect.

Too much lower (right) hand on the club

It seems like almost all golfers of 8-10 handicap or higher have the club too far into the palm of the lower hand, because that feels “good” if you are trying to control the path of the clubhead to the ball. But the golf swing is not an effort to hit at the ball – it is a swing of the club. The proper hold on the club has the grip underneath the pad at the base of the fingers. This will likely feel “weak” to you — like you cannot control the club like that. EXACTLY. You should not be trying to control the club with your lower/master hand.

Gripping too tightly

Nearly all golfers hold the club too tightly, which tenses up the forearms and prevents a proper release of the club through impact. In order for the club to move back and through properly, you must feel that the club is controlled by the last three fingers of the upper hand, and the middle two fingers of the lower hand. If you engage your thumbs and forefingers in “holding” the club, the result will almost always be a grip that is too tight. Try this for yourself. Hold the club in your upper hand only, and squeeze firmly with just the last three fingers, with the forefinger and thumb off the club entirely. You have good control, but your forearms are not tense. Then begin to squeeze down with your thumb and forefinger and observe the tensing of the entire forearm. This is the way we are made, so the key to preventing tenseness in the arms is to hold the club very lightly with the “pinchers” — the thumbs and forefingers.

So, those are what I believe are the four fundamentals of a good grip. Anyone can learn them in their home or office very quickly. There is no easier way to improve your ball striking consistency and add distance than giving more attention to the way you hold the golf club.

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Not the dreaded headcover under the armpit drill! As if your body is defective and can’t function by itself! Have you seen how incredible the human machine is with all the incredible feats of agility all kinds of athletes are accomplishing? You think your body is so defective (the good Lord is laughing his head off at you) that it needs a headcover tucked under the armpit so you can swing like T-Rex?

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How a towel can fix your golf swing

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This is a classic drill that has been used for decades. However, the world of marketed training aids has grown so much during that time that this simple practice has been virtually forgotten. Because why teach people how to play golf using everyday items when you can create and sell a product that reinforces the same thing? Nevertheless, I am here to give you helpful advice without running to the nearest Edwin Watts or adding something to your Amazon cart.

For the “scoring clubs,” having a solid connection between the arms and body during the swing, especially through impact, is paramount to creating long-lasting consistency. And keeping that connection throughout the swing helps rotate the shoulders more to generate more power to help you hit it farther. So, how does this drill work, and what will your game benefit from it? Well, let’s get into it.

Setup

You can use this for basic chip shots up to complete swings. I use this with every club in my bag, up to a 9 or 8-iron. It’s natural to create incrementally more separation between the arms and body as you progress up the set. So doing this with a high iron or a wood is not recommended.

While you set up to hit a ball, simply tuck the towel underneath both armpits. The length of the towel will determine how tight it will be across your chest but don’t make it so loose that it gets in the way of your vision. After both sides are tucked, make some focused swings, keeping both arms firmly connected to the body during the backswing and follow through. (Note: It’s normal to lose connection on your lead arm during your finishing pose.) When you’re ready, put a ball in the way of those swings and get to work.

Get a Better Shoulder Turn

Many of us struggle to have proper shoulder rotation in our golf swing, especially during long layoffs. Making a swing that is all arms and no shoulders is a surefire way to have less control with wedges and less distance with full swings. Notice how I can get in a similar-looking position in both 60° wedge photos. However, one is weak and uncontrollable, while the other is strong and connected. One allows me to use my larger muscles to create my swing, and one doesn’t. The follow-through is another critical point where having a good connection, as well as solid shoulder rotation, is a must. This drill is great for those who tend to have a “chicken wing” form in their lead arm, which happens when it becomes separated from the body through impact.

In full swings, getting your shoulders to rotate in your golf swing is a great way to reinforce proper weight distribution. If your swing is all arms, it’s much harder to get your weight to naturally shift to the inside part of your trail foot in the backswing. Sure, you could make the mistake of “sliding” to get weight on your back foot, but that doesn’t fix the issue. You must turn into your trial leg to generate power. Additionally, look at the difference in separation between my hands and my head in the 8-iron examples. The green picture has more separation and has my hands lower. This will help me lessen my angle of attack and make it easier to hit the inside part of the golf ball, rather than the over-the-top move that the other picture produces.

Stay Better Connected in the Backswing

When you don’t keep everything in your upper body working as one, getting to a good spot at the top of your swing is very hard to do. It would take impeccable timing along with great hand-eye coordination to hit quality shots with any sort of regularity if the arms are working separately from the body.

Notice in the red pictures of both my 60-degree wedge and 8-iron how high my hands are and the fact you can clearly see my shoulder through the gap in my arms. That has happened because the right arm, just above my elbow, has become totally disconnected from my body. That separation causes me to lift my hands as well as lose some of the extension in my left arm. This has been corrected in the green pictures by using this drill to reinforce that connection. It will also make you focus on keeping the lead arm close to your body as well. Because the moment either one loses that relationship, the towel falls.

Conclusion

I have been diligent this year in finding a few drills that target some of the issues that plague my golf game; either by simply forgetting fundamental things or by coming to terms with the faults that have bitten me my whole career. I have found that having a few drills to fall back on to reinforce certain feelings helps me find my game a little easier, and the “towel drill” is most definitely one of them.

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