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I have a recurring dream (seriously!) that I’m playing in some Tour event and my name is announced on the first tee. I wave, the crowd is on both sides of me, and I step up confidently, but I cannot get the ball to stay on the tee. Every time I try to tee it up the golf ball just falls off. Right hand… falls. Left hand…. falls. Both hands? Falls. Of course, I don’t know I’m dreaming, but I’m mortified. Well, thank goodness it is only a dream and it never became a reality. But I often think of this whenever I see some younger player or journeyman playing in a big event paired with a big name. I don’t know how they do it!

So imagine you’re magically transformed to the first tee on Sunday at Augusta National in your first Masters showing; you’re paired with your co-leaders Tiger Woods and Phil Mickelson. They both step up and rip it down the middle, 300+ yards, and the 20-deep crowd is roaring loudly. Now, it’s your turn… how would you handle it?

One of my close friends, Casey Wittenberg, has played Tour golf for the last 10+ years. You may remember him because of a top-12 finish at Augusta as an Amateur out of Oklahoma State, or maybe as the Leading Money Winner and Player of the Year in 2012 on Web.com Tour, or maybe you remember him as the guy paired with Tiger at the Olympic Club on Sunday at the 2012 U.S. Open.

Obviously, I watched intently during the Sunday final round, Tiger and my friend Wittenberg in a twosome; remember, this was Tiger in his heyday. Casey has the honors on the first tee and he steps up and rips one down the middle like he’s done a million times before. I think I was more nervous than he was. I couldn’t wait to ask him what he was thinking and how he put everything out of his mind to hit such a wonderful shot.

So in this article I want to share with you the things that he told me and how he coped with one of the biggest rounds of his life, with the biggest star of our generation, and under the intense pressure of the U.S. Open final round on TV for millions to see. Hopefully these thoughts help you with your first tee nerves; whether it’s playing in a tournament, or a golf league with your buddies, or with just the starter watching.

1) Slow Down

You must resist the urge to move too fast and let the adrenaline take over, which throws you out of your rhythm. Take a few practice swings focusing just on tempo. It may also help to get a song in your head that relaxes you. Your brain may be going a million miles an hour, but take a few deep breathes and slow down your thoughts and movements. It’s easy to let your swing get too quick on the first tee given the extra adrenaline and wanting to “get it over with,” so slowing down will help you hit a more relaxed tee shot that has a better chance of finding the fairway.

2) Put things into perspective

I know this is difficult to understand at the time, but a first tee shot counts just the same as any other shot throughout the round. Over the course of 18 holes, chances are that the first tee shot will have very little effect on your score or finish in the event. Whether you hit it in the rough, fairway, bunker or trees, you can still make par. And if you hit the ball out of bounds, well, you get an extra drive to warmup and get settled into your swing for the day and you can always make up the strokes throughout the round. One drive does NOT a round make.

Plus, if you duck hook it or slice it off the planet, now you know to make an adjustment for the day!

Perspective comes through experience and experience comes through mistakes and learning from them; I’ve learned that the less I worry about that first tee shot, the better drive I hit, and the more pressure I place on myself, the worse drive I hit. So why make that one shot such a big deal? Give yourself a break, it’s just one stroke.

3) Focus on your routine

All you can control is yourself and the ability for you to put yourself into a position mentally and physically where you have the possibility to hit a good shot. And the first thing you must do is focus on the things you can control, such as your routine… you know, the way you approach every single shot. It should be the same one you always do, take the same amount of time once you begin it, and have all the right pieces in place before you pull the trigger. If you re-arrange it or add another waggle or two, you will throw yourself off and diminish your ability to do what you know you can do.

Focus on what you can control and not the outcome.

4) Take a timeout if you need it

Yes, you must stay in your routine, but if you find yourself panicking or letting the demons take over, then back off and start again. Take a few deep breaths, or whatever you need to do to relax as best you can, then get back into your routine. As stated earlier, you have a high probability of moving too fast whenever you get nervous so “slowing down” might make you go back into your normal routine.

5) The first tee is all style points

No one remembers where you hit the ball on hole No. 1 when the tournament is over, they only remember the winner. No one cares about the guy who hit the pop up, or the 314-yard drive on the first tee. The first tee only gives you style points, not your final score. Hitting the fairway is nice, but it’s not a death sentence if you don’t. So relax… as best you can!

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Tom F. Stickney II, is a specialist in Biomechanics for Golf, Physiology, and 3d Motion Analysis. He has a degree in Exercise and Fitness and has been a Director of Instruction for almost 30 years at resorts and clubs such as- The Four Seasons Punta Mita, BIGHORN Golf Club, The Club at Cordillera, The Promontory Club, and the Sandestin Golf and Beach Resort. His past and present instructional awards include the following: Golf Magazine Top 100 Teacher, Golf Digest Top 50 International Instructor, Golf Tips Top 25 Instructor, Best in State (Florida, Colorado, and California,) Top 20 Teachers Under 40, Best Young Teachers and many more. Tom is a Trackman University Master/Partner, a distinction held by less than 25 people in the world. Tom is TPI Certified- Level 1, Golf Level 2, Level 2- Power, and Level 2- Fitness and believes that you cannot reach your maximum potential as a player with out some focus on your physiology. You can reach him at [email protected] and he welcomes any questions you may have.

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  1. Nigel Kent

    Jun 4, 2018 at 9:13 am

    I was by the left-hand rope where most 1st-tee drives finished in round 1 of the 2003 Open at Royal St Georges .Wet ,windy, a fairway 18 yards wide at that point,shaped like a hog’s back . Tom Watson hit his 2nd from about 8ft away , made par .Then up steps Tiger, hits a 2-iron into the wispy 12″ rough on the right. Ball-spotters, marshalls,30 or 40 people at the ropes, NOBODY saw it !While they’re searching Tiger & caddy wander as slowly as they can from the tee (5-minute search time doesn’t begin til they get there.) In the end it’s a lost ball , buggy-ride back , 3 off the tee , Tiger takes 7 (triple bogey).
    In the interview after his round Tiger just brushes it off with something like “If you told me I’d be 3-over for the round, I’d take it . It’s just that those 3 went on the 1st hole “

  2. CW

    May 14, 2018 at 6:07 pm

    I HAVE THE SAME DREAM!!! Not on a tour event specifically but certainly on a nice golf course with people I care about watching…

  3. Cam

    May 10, 2018 at 10:36 am

    I find picking a target in the sky above the fairway – like a cloud – is a lot easier objective to go for – just do a pre-swing towards it and it puts me in the right positions to get off the mark.

  4. ogo

    May 9, 2018 at 11:27 pm

    Take a good swig of bourbon whiskey and all your nerves will calm down… and many pros do just this …. believe it 😮

    • scotty

      May 10, 2018 at 10:22 am

      Aye…. a wee dram of Scotch whiskey will wash away all yer fears on the first tee … guaranteed.

  5. Joey5Picks

    May 9, 2018 at 3:54 pm

    “… and you can always make up the strokes throughout the round.”

    No, you can’t “make up” strokes. If you hit the first tee shot OB, then birdie the next 17 holes you didn’t “make up” for that tee shot. Your score is 2 strokes higher than it would have been, period.

    • Elliot mcdongle

      May 9, 2018 at 7:30 pm

      I think we all understand the “literal” sense of that. But if you parred 17 holes and doubled one, would you rather post the double bogey on hole 1 or hole 18? Probably 1

  6. OG Golfer

    May 9, 2018 at 3:17 pm

    Threesomes are a rare sighting on Sunday at Augusta… but I’ll try to imagine.

  7. Al Czervik

    May 9, 2018 at 1:14 pm

    Let me suggest #6: pregame heavily.

  8. TheCityGame

    May 9, 2018 at 1:01 pm

    You hadn’t come out of your dream when Tiger hit one 300 down the middle on 1 at Augusta.

    He’s the left trees like 10 times out of 10.

  9. Ron

    May 9, 2018 at 11:59 am

    I’ve found the first tee to always one of my better shots of the day because you can slow down your mind and body and let the adrenaline do the extra work. Focus on a smooth swing with good tempo and you’re golden.

    • James T

      May 9, 2018 at 2:20 pm

      Great point! This was also Jack Nicklaus’s advice… let the adrenaline supply the power, just make a smooth swing.

      For me, I like to yak it up and make jokes with my foursome to take my mind off the drive. I’ll be talkin’ right up to the final waggle. Almost always works.

  10. Xav

    May 9, 2018 at 11:06 am

    I would say playing a higher lofted club such as a hybrid, fairway wood or long iron off the first tee to have a higher probability of putting it into play. I found if I swing a hybrid off the first tee and remind myself to swing easy I usually get my round off to a good start. It may not be a high towering long drive but I get the mojo for the round flowing as opposed to making a higher risk, aggressive shot with driver. And inevitably shanking it. I would also add that one should also ignore what others are doing around you in terms of pulling driver. Stick to your strategy and strengths.

    • TheCityGame

      May 9, 2018 at 1:04 pm

      Have you ever teed off in a stroke play tournament on a 450 yard par 4 first hole and just watched the first 7 guys in your flight pound driver down the middle?

      And you’re going to punch a 4 iron out there 200 yards?

      The whole point of this article is to get away from having to do what you suggested.

      • Xav

        May 9, 2018 at 4:21 pm

        First Tee Jitters are first tee jitters regardless of the club you have in hand. You think Tiger wishes he could have some re-does with a more consistent club in his hand. No one wants to go OB and lose 2 strokes at the starting gun. I don’t care what the 7 guys in my flight have done an how well they striped it. It’s my match, my strategy and my end result that count.

        • 3PuttPar

          May 11, 2018 at 10:24 am

          Amen to that brotha! At the end of the day you’re playing the course (excluding match play). My strategy, go to a reliable shot/club that you know will take one side of the first hole out of play.

          I fade the ball with my woods and hit my long irons straight with maybe a baby cut. If I know I have room down the right, I’ll hit driver, 3 or 5 wood knowing that I’m 99.99% of the time not going left. If there’s trouble right, I don’t care if its a 600 yard par 5…I’m hitting 4 iron and keeping one in play.

          Get one out there that is playable. In this game, you’re only as good as your misses. Don’t let nerves on the first tee bully you into playing a shot that feels like a gamble.

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The Wedge Guy: The easiest-to-learn golf basic

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My golf learning began with this simple fact – if you don’t have a fundamentally sound hold on the golf club, it is practically impossible for your body to execute a fundamentally sound golf swing. I’m still a big believer that the golf swing is much easier to execute if you begin with the proper hold on the club.

As you might imagine, I come into contact with hundreds of golfers of all skill levels. And it is very rare to see a good player with a bad hold on the golf club. There are some exceptions, for sure, but they are very few and very far between, and they typically have beat so many balls with their poor grip that they’ve found a way to work around it.

The reality of biophysics is that the body moves only in certain ways – and the particulars of the way you hold the golf club can totally prevent a sound swing motion that allows the club to release properly through the impact zone. The wonderful thing is that anyone can learn how to put a fundamentally sound hold on the golf club, and you can practice it anywhere your hands are not otherwise engaged, like watching TV or just sitting and relaxing.

Whether you prefer an overlap, interlock or full-finger (not baseball!) grip on the club, the same fundamentals apply.  Here are the major grip faults I see most often, in the order of the frequency:

Mis-aligned hands

By this I mean that the palms of the two hands are not parallel to each other. Too many golfers have a weak left hand and strong right, or vice versa. The easiest way to learn how to hold the club with your palms aligned properly is to grip a plain wooden ruler or yardstick. It forces the hands to align properly and shows you how that feels. If you grip and re-grip a yardstick several times, then grip a club, you’ll see that the learning curve is almost immediate.

The position of the grip in the upper/left hand

I also observe many golfers who have the butt of the grip too far into the heel pad of the upper hand (the left hand for right-handed players). It’s amazing how much easier it is to release the club through the ball if even 1/4-1/2″ of the butt is beyond the left heel pad. Try this yourself to see what I mean.  Swing the club freely with just your left hand and notice the difference in its release from when you hold it at the end of the grip, versus gripping down even a half inch.

To help you really understand how this works, go to the range and hit shots with your five-iron gripped down a full inch to make the club the same length as your seven-iron. You will probably see an amazing shot shape difference, and likely not see as much distance loss as you would expect.

Too much lower (right) hand on the club

It seems like almost all golfers of 8-10 handicap or higher have the club too far into the palm of the lower hand, because that feels “good” if you are trying to control the path of the clubhead to the ball. But the golf swing is not an effort to hit at the ball – it is a swing of the club. The proper hold on the club has the grip underneath the pad at the base of the fingers. This will likely feel “weak” to you — like you cannot control the club like that. EXACTLY. You should not be trying to control the club with your lower/master hand.

Gripping too tightly

Nearly all golfers hold the club too tightly, which tenses up the forearms and prevents a proper release of the club through impact. In order for the club to move back and through properly, you must feel that the club is controlled by the last three fingers of the upper hand, and the middle two fingers of the lower hand. If you engage your thumbs and forefingers in “holding” the club, the result will almost always be a grip that is too tight. Try this for yourself. Hold the club in your upper hand only, and squeeze firmly with just the last three fingers, with the forefinger and thumb off the club entirely. You have good control, but your forearms are not tense. Then begin to squeeze down with your thumb and forefinger and observe the tensing of the entire forearm. This is the way we are made, so the key to preventing tenseness in the arms is to hold the club very lightly with the “pinchers” — the thumbs and forefingers.

So, those are what I believe are the four fundamentals of a good grip. Anyone can learn them in their home or office very quickly. There is no easier way to improve your ball striking consistency and add distance than giving more attention to the way you hold the golf club.

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Not the dreaded headcover under the armpit drill! As if your body is defective and can’t function by itself! Have you seen how incredible the human machine is with all the incredible feats of agility all kinds of athletes are accomplishing? You think your body is so defective (the good Lord is laughing his head off at you) that it needs a headcover tucked under the armpit so you can swing like T-Rex?

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How a towel can fix your golf swing

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This is a classic drill that has been used for decades. However, the world of marketed training aids has grown so much during that time that this simple practice has been virtually forgotten. Because why teach people how to play golf using everyday items when you can create and sell a product that reinforces the same thing? Nevertheless, I am here to give you helpful advice without running to the nearest Edwin Watts or adding something to your Amazon cart.

For the “scoring clubs,” having a solid connection between the arms and body during the swing, especially through impact, is paramount to creating long-lasting consistency. And keeping that connection throughout the swing helps rotate the shoulders more to generate more power to help you hit it farther. So, how does this drill work, and what will your game benefit from it? Well, let’s get into it.

Setup

You can use this for basic chip shots up to complete swings. I use this with every club in my bag, up to a 9 or 8-iron. It’s natural to create incrementally more separation between the arms and body as you progress up the set. So doing this with a high iron or a wood is not recommended.

While you set up to hit a ball, simply tuck the towel underneath both armpits. The length of the towel will determine how tight it will be across your chest but don’t make it so loose that it gets in the way of your vision. After both sides are tucked, make some focused swings, keeping both arms firmly connected to the body during the backswing and follow through. (Note: It’s normal to lose connection on your lead arm during your finishing pose.) When you’re ready, put a ball in the way of those swings and get to work.

Get a Better Shoulder Turn

Many of us struggle to have proper shoulder rotation in our golf swing, especially during long layoffs. Making a swing that is all arms and no shoulders is a surefire way to have less control with wedges and less distance with full swings. Notice how I can get in a similar-looking position in both 60° wedge photos. However, one is weak and uncontrollable, while the other is strong and connected. One allows me to use my larger muscles to create my swing, and one doesn’t. The follow-through is another critical point where having a good connection, as well as solid shoulder rotation, is a must. This drill is great for those who tend to have a “chicken wing” form in their lead arm, which happens when it becomes separated from the body through impact.

In full swings, getting your shoulders to rotate in your golf swing is a great way to reinforce proper weight distribution. If your swing is all arms, it’s much harder to get your weight to naturally shift to the inside part of your trail foot in the backswing. Sure, you could make the mistake of “sliding” to get weight on your back foot, but that doesn’t fix the issue. You must turn into your trial leg to generate power. Additionally, look at the difference in separation between my hands and my head in the 8-iron examples. The green picture has more separation and has my hands lower. This will help me lessen my angle of attack and make it easier to hit the inside part of the golf ball, rather than the over-the-top move that the other picture produces.

Stay Better Connected in the Backswing

When you don’t keep everything in your upper body working as one, getting to a good spot at the top of your swing is very hard to do. It would take impeccable timing along with great hand-eye coordination to hit quality shots with any sort of regularity if the arms are working separately from the body.

Notice in the red pictures of both my 60-degree wedge and 8-iron how high my hands are and the fact you can clearly see my shoulder through the gap in my arms. That has happened because the right arm, just above my elbow, has become totally disconnected from my body. That separation causes me to lift my hands as well as lose some of the extension in my left arm. This has been corrected in the green pictures by using this drill to reinforce that connection. It will also make you focus on keeping the lead arm close to your body as well. Because the moment either one loses that relationship, the towel falls.

Conclusion

I have been diligent this year in finding a few drills that target some of the issues that plague my golf game; either by simply forgetting fundamental things or by coming to terms with the faults that have bitten me my whole career. I have found that having a few drills to fall back on to reinforce certain feelings helps me find my game a little easier, and the “towel drill” is most definitely one of them.

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